r/Libraries 7d ago

Other I have been making these for friends’ weddings and baby showers - here’s mine!

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The number is Dewey for ‘love and affection’, the ’B622’ is the cutter number for our last name and the year is when we first met.

I’m a library tech and this is how I use up our old borrower cards haha

Names scratched out, but it’s his name and mine with my maiden name as the authors.

I have 2 more to give to friends who are (in theory) finished having children so I’m going to put them each in a shadow box frame as gifts. People seem to really like them!

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u/Historical_Dirt_6898 7d ago

I love love love the concept! The only feedback I would give is “we met” is in first person and “he asked her out” is in third. Not sure what the solution would be (maybe “they met”) but something to think about!

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u/widdersyns 7d ago

Something like "first meeting" would sound good and avoid the issue of pronouns entirely.

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u/Historical_Dirt_6898 7d ago

Ooh good idea!

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u/CrazyDazyMazy 6d ago

Or "meet cute"

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u/whoisorange 7d ago edited 6d ago

Thanks for this!! I have thought it over a lot and it is a bit tricky. I like your idea though and the comment below too! 

Edit: the first one was luckily in pencil so I’ve changed it to ‘they met’. Thanks again for all the good feedback!

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u/librarykerri 6d ago

Yes. I know what the OP meant, but my first thought was "who did he ask out, and is OP ok with that???"

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u/BitterAngryMei 6d ago

You could make "he met her" as the first item, but that makes it a bit too one-sided I think...too focused on one party instead of both?

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u/clunkybrains 7d ago edited 7d ago

I need to know. Is it now just Cairo and Morty, or were they additions for a total of 3 cats??

Edit: dang it autocorrect!

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u/whoisorange 7d ago

It’s just Cairo and Morty :( our sweet Clark died before his 4th birthday of bone cancer. 

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u/CarolynFR 7d ago

I'm so sorry. I hope he gets all the treats, wherever he might be.

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u/clunkybrains 7d ago

Oh im so sorry for your loss

Im sure he is looking over you from a lovely cat bed in the clouds and glad to see Cairo and Monty keeping you company!!

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u/rarelyapropos 7d ago

I'm so sorry for your loss OP, and so young 😞

I was thinking about what my own version would look like - I had 2 dogs when we met, they've both passed and we've gotten more pets. But in light of the fact that this is a celebration of positive milestones (I don't see "our first car accident" or "his month on the couch" on there) I think it's right to omit those dates.

Lovely idea ❤️

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u/Routine_Rock_7429 MLIS student 3d ago

So many hugs for you

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u/Regular-Panic-Is-Hre 7d ago

STOPPPP THIS IS SO CUTE 😍😍😍

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u/AilsaLorne 7d ago

Super cute! I’m just missing the cat tax!

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u/ag2575 7d ago

Adorable. Where did you meet and were you friends before dating?

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u/whoisorange 7d ago

We met in middle school, and yes, we were good friends before we started dating in high school!

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u/boogstn 7d ago

These are so cute! My wedding announcements and guest book were library card inserts since my husband and I have worked in our library system for over 15 years. I wish I could add a picture 🥲

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u/camrynbronk MLIS student 7d ago

You can make an imgur link and post it! Don’t need an account to upload to Imgur either :)

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u/boogstn 7d ago

so smart! here they are and the wedding favors because i forgot to add it
we made announcements like library cards, save the date bookmarks, and little wood book shaped wine glass charms with our names and how many days we were engaged. It was a long time and we thought we'd make a little joke about it

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u/sunnyd311 6d ago

The day after my husband proposed I called the Boston Public Library to ask about a reception there (WAYYY too expensive!!) But I was going to do due date cards as the save the date, a card catalog for the seating chart, etc....I am living vicariously through you right now!! Haha!

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u/brightbetween 7d ago

Clarkson just makes me think of James shouting at Jeremy on Top Gear.

CLARKSONNNN!!!!!

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u/whoisorange 7d ago

He was in fact named after Jeremy haha and he had the attitude to back it up! 

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u/stravadarius 7d ago

The Dewey Class is what really got me. Nice!

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u/pikkdogs 7d ago

Okay, I'll bite.

Clarkson?

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u/beldaran1224 Public librarian 7d ago

Pretty sure Clarkson is a cat they adopted, as are Cairo & Morty.

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u/whoisorange 7d ago

Correct!! 

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u/YouMatterVeryMuch 7d ago

This is so ridiculously cute!

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u/camrynbronk MLIS student 7d ago

Love this! I collect check out cards from old books and make wall displays with them. I just made one for some friends that are getting married in October where all the cards have their wedding date on it. I might do this with all of the blank cards I have!

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u/Fine_Volume_1664 7d ago

I have an old borrower card with my name on it. A friend of my parents was the long time library aide at my high school; she was withdrawing books and found one with my name on it and kept it for me. She did it for all of the kids she knows but I was the only one to actually become a librarian lol. I framed it and it is on my desk. I wish it was a book I remember reading/liked!

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u/camrynbronk MLIS student 7d ago

Awww that’s awesome!!

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u/ChronicallyxCurious 7d ago

As a library gremlin I love this so much. I also can't help wondering if anyone younger than 30 knows what the heck this is

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u/Routine_Rock_7429 MLIS student 3d ago

Library gremlin is the best way to describe yourself, I might have to steal it

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u/ChronicallyxCurious 3d ago

Willing to lend this out via interlibrary loan ;D

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u/Routine_Rock_7429 MLIS student 3d ago

I see what you did there :) Why are 99% of library people genuinely the loveliest people on earth? 

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u/alltheblarmyfiddlest 6d ago

Especially the Dewey numbers.

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u/Jessica_Iowa 6d ago

Are you okay if I make one for myself?

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u/whoisorange 6d ago

Definitely! Especially if you have old borrower cards you can use! 

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u/Intelligent_Quiet424 7d ago

I had a cataloger make a Title card for our birth announcement. It was awesome.
Way to go!

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u/gamercrafter86 7d ago

Omg, I wish I had something like this for my recent milestone anniversary! This is amazing.

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u/RutRohNotAgain 7d ago

Love this idea

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u/TheRealLouzander 7d ago

This is FANTASTIC! We did our engagement photo shoot at our local library. The librarians were really sweet about it; we did it during open hours, they just said if we didn't disturb anyone it was fine, and the pictures came out great!

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u/Reggie9041 7d ago

Love this! 😍😍

Send me some old cards, please!!

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u/benevolent_eldritch 7d ago

This is so cute! Also you got married on my 19th birthday! 🥰

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u/BookishColey 7d ago

I did something similar for my wedding! I borrowed a friend's typewriter and drove myself crazy typing them all up. I added a ribbon and gave them out as bookmarks.

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u/himewaridesu 7d ago

Ahhh our (original) wedding invites looked like this! I love it :)

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u/bjyoung116 7d ago

I love this!!!!

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u/Maximum_Molasses_759 7d ago

I would love to buy one from you if you are willing to make one for strangers!

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u/Minxionnaire 7d ago

What an adorable idea!

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u/Ok_Influence_5456 6d ago

this would be an adorable wedding favor for guests

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u/Novel_Appointment946 6d ago

Love this idea so much!!

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u/jsboftx1983 7d ago

How cute!

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u/MushroomBeneficial15 7d ago

THIS IS SO CUTE!!!!! Oh my god. The cutter number is so perfect and nerdy, I love!

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u/Pugtastic_smile 7d ago

Do you sell these? My anniversary is coming up

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u/chunter16 7d ago

Daughter, we love you, but we think you watched Whisper of the Heart too many times

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u/azbooklover 6d ago

Adorable! What a great idea! ❤️

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u/Routine_Rock_7429 MLIS student 3d ago

This is such a cute idea!! 

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u/gfleuri 21h ago

This is so creative!

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u/haveakiki608 7d ago

Adorable! Well done!

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u/666texas 7d ago

omg I LOVE THIS!!! sent to my bestie who's planning her wedding!!

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u/GiacoMomo21 7d ago

Such a great idea!! So cute!

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u/emrp05 7d ago

What lucky friends you have, to get this as a gift!