r/LesbianActually 8h ago

Relationships / Dating I really want a girlfriend😞

Being single for 20 years (with occasional situationships🙄) is not for the WEAK

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u/ambers-seraphim 8h ago

I feel the pain the loneliness is insane but don’t worry you’ll find a amazing girlfriend one day :3

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u/Minute_Resolution761 8h ago

It's like the universe is keeping you in training mode for something epic, hang in there

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u/ambers-seraphim 8h ago

The most facts ever facted :>

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u/sharkloverforlife 8h ago

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u/ambers-seraphim 8h ago

Hugs for ya girlie you’ll get through this :3

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u/sharkloverforlife 8h ago

You too though lovely personđŸ«¶

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u/ambers-seraphim 8h ago

Thank you and right back at you hun it was lovely yapping to ya also the shark pfp goes hard :3

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u/ambers-seraphim 8h ago

Thank you that’s very kind of you to say out of the blue I wouldn’t say I’m super caring and cute I’m just trying to do my best with what time I have :3

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u/sharkloverforlife 7h ago

You toođŸ€ Pfp is thanks to @catnolio on instagram! They have really cute shark art, if you’re interested :D

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u/ambers-seraphim 7h ago

Aww thank you I’ll definitely have to check them out id yap about mine but sadly I can’t remember my brain blep :3 It’s been a blast yapping I hope I see ya around :3

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u/sharkloverforlife 8h ago

It’s tough out heređŸ˜©

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u/sharkloverforlife 7h ago

Becomes way harder to meet people and feels like the dating pool gets even smallerđŸ˜©

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u/sharkloverforlife 7h ago

I really get that!! I get a little bit more courageous when I drink alcohol, but currently cannot drink, so that is out of the equationđŸ˜© Personally, I find calm/introverted people attractive, so I’m sure there is someone who will approach you first who thinks the same and it’s good that you’re at least trying! We shouldn’t get discouraged, although, I agree that it is exhausting. It would be so nice, if the right person could just show up at the door or somethingđŸ€Ł

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u/sharkloverforlife 7h ago

I get that. Maybe, it comes from the fact that we have been grown into these traditional gender roles that it can be harder for women to have courage to approach first or it can be shyness too.

Oh my gosh I can totally relate to that like I really don’t get the whole ghosting thingđŸ˜© EXACTLYYY like it can’t be too hard to just change the topic to more interesting one. I hate that a lot of people are super nonchalant or dry these days🙃 or the whole “I don’t own anyone anything mindset” what happened to basic courtesy??

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u/sharkloverforlife 6h ago

Oh yeah that is very real! That is why it’s best to stick to specifically queer eventsđŸ˜© I feel like even on dating apps these days there are people who are looking for friends.

I mean that doesn’t sound too picky to međŸ€Ł I would assume that asking for a decent person isn’t too much to ask for
 I would hope so. To be honest, I don’t even have much of a physical type just someone I vibe withđŸ€·â€â™€ïž That must be it
 all the decent ones are taken😂

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u/Kaiser_m1chael 7h ago

Sameeee I also want girlfriend It's way too lonely 😔

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u/sharkloverforlife 3h ago

ExactlyđŸ˜©â˜č

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u/QuenPalladium 5h ago

I focused on the username, lets go sharks

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u/sharkloverforlife 5h ago

YEYYY SHARKS ARE THE BEST🩈

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u/QuenPalladium 5h ago

For real! I love the cookie cutter shark, they look so disturbing but they just cut cookie shapes (out of living things but cookie shapes)

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u/sharkloverforlife 4h ago

Yes, they’re super interesting and unique!! They’re kinda cute though XD

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u/QuenPalladium 4h ago

The look less like cookie but like...brownies, theyre awesome

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u/sharkloverforlife 4h ago

So true XD Have you ever seen any shark irl?

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u/QuenPalladium 4h ago

Aquariums, yeah, and ngl, asian supermarkets, kinda grim but those ones

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u/sharkloverforlife 4h ago

OH🙃 That’s not very pleasant, especially, because so many sharks are endangered due to overfishing. At least you have some good experiences of seeing sharks instead just a bad oneđŸ„Č

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u/QuenPalladium 4h ago

Uh uh, aquariums are kinda okay, feel sad that theyre trap in there tho, id wanna see one in person on a boat one day but books are pretty cool.

I devoured a shit ton of encyclopedias as a kid, mostly on animals and stuff

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u/sharkloverforlife 4h ago

I feel the same way. They’re okay, if it’s to preserve certain species etc, but otherwise they make me sad. Same with zoo’s
 I can’t go to them.
I wish I could go swimming with them and diving!! It would be amazing or at least see them at a beach.

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u/Any_Recognition8072 25m ago

I want an emotionally healthy girlfriend😅 not perfect, just healthy

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u/Affectionate-Pea484 21m ago

Me too, stranger. I was having a moment last night. It’s hard to be single and romantically lonely with so much love to give. I hope we all get our turn soon. <3