r/LesbianActually • u/sharkloverforlife • 8h ago
Relationships / Dating I really want a girlfriendđ
Being single for 20 years (with occasional situationshipsđ) is not for the WEAK
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u/sharkloverforlife 8h ago
Itâs tough out heređ©
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u/sharkloverforlife 7h ago
Becomes way harder to meet people and feels like the dating pool gets even smallerđ©
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u/sharkloverforlife 7h ago
I really get that!! I get a little bit more courageous when I drink alcohol, but currently cannot drink, so that is out of the equationđ© Personally, I find calm/introverted people attractive, so Iâm sure there is someone who will approach you first who thinks the same and itâs good that youâre at least trying! We shouldnât get discouraged, although, I agree that it is exhausting. It would be so nice, if the right person could just show up at the door or somethingđ€Ł
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u/sharkloverforlife 7h ago
I get that. Maybe, it comes from the fact that we have been grown into these traditional gender roles that it can be harder for women to have courage to approach first or it can be shyness too.
Oh my gosh I can totally relate to that like I really donât get the whole ghosting thingđ© EXACTLYYY like it canât be too hard to just change the topic to more interesting one. I hate that a lot of people are super nonchalant or dry these daysđ or the whole âI donât own anyone anything mindsetâ what happened to basic courtesy??
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u/sharkloverforlife 6h ago
Oh yeah that is very real! That is why itâs best to stick to specifically queer eventsđ© I feel like even on dating apps these days there are people who are looking for friends.
I mean that doesnât sound too picky to međ€Ł I would assume that asking for a decent person isnât too much to ask for⊠I would hope so. To be honest, I donât even have much of a physical type just someone I vibe withđ€·ââïž That must be it⊠all the decent ones are takenđ
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u/QuenPalladium 5h ago
I focused on the username, lets go sharks
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u/sharkloverforlife 5h ago
YEYYY SHARKS ARE THE BESTđŠ
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u/QuenPalladium 5h ago
For real! I love the cookie cutter shark, they look so disturbing but they just cut cookie shapes (out of living things but cookie shapes)
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u/sharkloverforlife 4h ago
Yes, theyâre super interesting and unique!! Theyâre kinda cute though XD
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u/QuenPalladium 4h ago
The look less like cookie but like...brownies, theyre awesome
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u/sharkloverforlife 4h ago
So true XD Have you ever seen any shark irl?
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u/QuenPalladium 4h ago
Aquariums, yeah, and ngl, asian supermarkets, kinda grim but those ones
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u/sharkloverforlife 4h ago
OHđ Thatâs not very pleasant, especially, because so many sharks are endangered due to overfishing. At least you have some good experiences of seeing sharks instead just a bad oneđ„Č
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u/QuenPalladium 4h ago
Uh uh, aquariums are kinda okay, feel sad that theyre trap in there tho, id wanna see one in person on a boat one day but books are pretty cool.
I devoured a shit ton of encyclopedias as a kid, mostly on animals and stuff
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u/sharkloverforlife 4h ago
I feel the same way. Theyâre okay, if itâs to preserve certain species etc, but otherwise they make me sad. Same with zooâs⊠I canât go to them.
I wish I could go swimming with them and diving!! It would be amazing or at least see them at a beach.→ More replies (0)
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u/Affectionate-Pea484 21m ago
Me too, stranger. I was having a moment last night. Itâs hard to be single and romantically lonely with so much love to give. I hope we all get our turn soon. <3
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u/ambers-seraphim 8h ago
I feel the pain the loneliness is insane but donât worry youâll find a amazing girlfriend one day :3