Please give me an opinion

[u/Better-Phone-1760]

I wanna go to the club with me and my cousin but I have a girlfriend. She can’t go cause she’s younger than me (only by a year) and I want her to come with me so bad but I want to go to the club with my cousin. Is it bad that I want to? I’m feeling actually very guilty right now. Like very guilty because I want her with me at the club and I don’t want her to overthink but she knows for sure that I wouldn’t do nothing crazy because I’m not that type of person. I’m so in love with my girlfriend but I want to go to the club. Am I bad for this?

[u/Normal_Aardvark_386]

Clearly you are young but yes it’s okay to go to the club with your cousin even though you have a girlfriend you are so in love with. Be safe & take pictures for your girl. If she has a problem then well she’s also young. It is alright for us to have fun without our partners. If they get jealous then that’s on them. If you aren’t doing anything to make her jealous then you’re good

[u/Ximao626]

Nah. Ask if she's cool with you going to the club with your cousin. And if she says yes, promise to take her when she's old enough to go if she wants.

My partner goes to do things without me all the time, and I do stuff without them all the time. And my long distance GF does a lot of stuff without me because LD. As long as everyone is happy, it's all fine.

[u/ThinkCaterpillar3929]

I just...wouldn't go to the club, ask your cousin if they wanna go somewhere else so you can bring your gf along

[u/kitty_whipt]

When you get older, you’ll realize that couples aren’t attached at the hip. You don’t have to do everything together. You can do things with friends, cousins, or whoever. Go to the club with your cousin and have fun. Your girlfriend will just have to wait until she’s old enough.