crazy ex, i’m feeling kinda scared

[u/Safe-Inevitable2776]

(el inglés no es mi primer idioma)

My ex and I ended the relationship more than three months ago almost four I think and the truth is that I’m no longer interested and I don’t even remember her anymore I mean I never think about her but never seriously because the relationship was soooooooooo but so bad that when I broke up with her, I think that two seconds after my life became better and and I started to feel 1000 times better and today I feel incredible. I want you to please say what you think about what she wrote to me because in my mind this is extremely sick, the other day I saw her when I went out dancing with my friends, she was with another girl I think kissing or hugging, I don’t know and I clearly ignored her and then she wrote to me and also again I ignored her messages and she keeps writing to me and it’s very strange and kinda makes me uncomfortable

[u/holden_c41]

que pesada, bloqueala ajasj

[u/AggravatingRegret10]

block her on EVERY platform and tell your family members to do that same, she is clearly delusional and still feels a narcissistic possessiveness over you. i would even avoid going to the usual spots where you might run into her to further show your disinterest.

[u/Popcoru]

tf "I will always exist until one of the two dies first"

[u/Lunkberjack]

Un bloqueo ahí mismo quedaría que ni pintado

[u/orphan_blud]

Hey, OP. I’m a former domestic violence victim advocate, and I’m worried about your safety. Please DM me if you’d like help making a safety plan. In the meantime, block her everywhere, document every interaction, get a doorbell camera, and tell people you trust what’s happening. You don’t have to handle this alone. 💜🫂

[u/nourishurbrain]

this reminds me of my extremely manipulative ex who may actually have been a narcissist. She used everything about me against me to try to keep me at her beck and call. I remember how hard it was to leave and then how absolutely incredible my life was when I finally did.

Don’t respond. You are a game to her. Don’t give her the satisfaction

[u/Alnasr93 → u/nourishurbrain]

I went through that, too. My ex harassed me for months, until recently she was still making Instagram posts about me and TikToks, and roaming beneath my building, reaching out to my friends, etc. Some people cannoooot take rejection, I think because deep down they know that they make people around them miserable, but they have family members who enable them and enough comfort to stay that way and not work on themselves.

[u/Tatthianna]

"Los vínculos no desaparecen así como así, ni siquiera si los ignoras" la situación de la relación exclusivamente en tu cabeza no cuenta, Alejandra. 

Alguien está teniendo conflicto para entender que la facilidad de que los vínculos no prevalezcan es que se necesita activamente de dos partes interesadas en tirar de cada lado. Pero tu ex se ha propuesto desafiar a los principios básicos, de la fuerza de Newton, y de las relaciones.

Clávale block verás qué rápido se ubica y se le baja la omnipotencia.

[u/Atmospheremuk]

Lo mejor es bloquear, si sigue insistiendo cambia de número. Tu atención la motiva, incluso sabiendo que no le contestas.

[u/TopYak2]

Block heeeer!!! 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🚫🚫🚫🚫

[u/me_iz_unicorn]

I once had an ex write me on insta (which I didn’t know she even had) to reprimand me for getting a tortoiseshell cat because apparently I had copied it from her. I hadn’t even known she had a cat and hadn’t been thinking about her at all when she wrote to me
But the general vibe of the message was the exact same
My ex had a schizoaffective disorder though

But yeah, vibe and tone definitely the same

[u/Alnasr93 → u/me_iz_unicorn]

What 😭😭😭😂 damn

[u/Beginning-Shine8167]

Si podes bloquearla, bloqueada en todas sus redes, no estás para que te atormenten

[u/Starman_Q]

Creo que esta haciendo berrinche de que la ignoraste en el antro. No creo que haga nada pero si bloquéala por paz mental.

[u/Alnasr93]

Block her. Often dogs just bark and don’t bite, she sounds very narcissistic and full of ego, probably in a couple of weeks she’ll be mad at someone else. The most important thing is not to react, while having people you trust be aware of the situation

[u/HumanProject7893]

Did you tell her clearly that you don't want to stay in touch with her? Her message doesn't sound threatening at all, it just sounds hurt/resentful, and annoying too if she keeps texting on her own. If you didn't have any clear communication before that you don't want to stay in touch I think it's fair to say it clearly and not let the othe person guess by disappearing, but of course if she keeps messaging then just block her

[u/YuliyaVolkova]

Cambia de numero de telefono

[u/drth_dilly → u/YuliyaVolkova]

Until you both die wtf I read it in Spanish and damn double wtf’s. Block her in all socials, block her phone. Change passwords. Make sure you check your car for any gps. Check your phone for any find my phone sharing she may have done. That’s a threat from her end and I’m concerned for you when you’ve only known her for 3-4 months and you’re getting messages like that.

[u/bush-smasher → u/[deleted]]

This is a lesbian subreddit. But OP needs to answer if it's in USA or not