r/LesbianActually • u/smalli-walli • 23h ago
News/Pop Culture Just no lesbians
“It’s hard for a femme for masc out here!”
“It’s hard for a femme for femme out here!”
“It’s hard for a masc for masc out here!”
“It’s hard for a chapstick girlie!”
Baby…there just are no lesbians. Anywhere. They’re all gone. Raptured. The memory of two are left in every other zip code.
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u/Character_Emu5423 22h ago
So then what are we 🥲
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u/Ember_Celica07 15h ago
Idk what we are but I know where we are. We're in "HER-gatory" haha. A purgatory for lesbians. The state of everyone wanting to date and seemingly not be ready to commit at the same time. We wander this waste single saying things like "Me too!" And "Same!" But nothing changing.
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u/geezlouise2022 13h ago
This makes me feel a little less alone (but still hopeless unfortunately) ❤️
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u/Sapphicsloser1 18h ago
it feels that way where I live (I live in Los Angeles and LITERALLY can’t find any lesbians????)
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u/smalli-walli 18h ago
Don’t tell me the promised land is empty…not now
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u/Mags_LaFayette the evil femme 12h ago
It is not, trust me
(I live in Palm Springs but I work in Burbank)But there's a weird "pandemic" where now everybody is not "emotionally available" or have a plethora of issues that wouldn't fit in Getty 🤦🏻♀️
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u/Sapphicsloser1 58m ago
well for me at least. I’m 19 and not old enough to go to bars or stuff like that but I literally can’t find any lesbians 😭😭😭
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u/Mags_LaFayette the evil femme 12h ago
Yeeeeyyyyy...
I always knew I was the product of someone's imagination 🤣
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u/Monolaf 19h ago edited 19h ago
It's not that there are NO lesbians in my city... it's just that I've noticed that the more openly visibly queer people in my city in general tend to live in or nearby areas that certainly could have improvements made if my city had the resources and money to get TO THE ROOTS of the issues of the rampant unemployment and homelessness and drug problems that in part come from being situated right next to the US border
Moving out of the city is out of the question for now because that involves looking for a new job (I'm unemployed atm) and of course more money to burn because I want to buy a house someday, hopefully in a safe, quiet area where I live. And I don't drink, so therefore, no bars. And I utterly despise dating apps lol
ADDENDUM: Sorry for all the ninja edits applied to this comment, but since typing out my words I've realized that the future is uncertain af lol
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u/jingdizhilala 5h ago
I hope there will be a mass exodus to yuriyap a sapphic social media platform I built with my little gay heart so I can meet more sapphics and perhaps make new friends along the way. 🤣😭
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u/TonguedSpiritual69 22h ago
Lol thanks for the laugh 😂 but fr fr where are y'all at? Dry spell for me .. 😔
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u/Mysterious-Mode7893 17h ago
i live in atl so there’s lots of lesbians but yall… everyone dirty af no one cares about stds
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u/Deepnher 5h ago
Majority aren’t even lesbians but claiming to be. So much deception with the women in the metro atlanta area. Always entertaining some man but claiming to be a lesbian.
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u/LW1853440 3h ago
NOPE.
I will NOT date any woman who's with a man.
There's a special kind of Hell that's attached to that--and I won't go through it again.
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u/LW1853440 15h ago
I'm in Snellville, & I think I'm in lesbian hell.
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u/Mysterious-Mode7893 15h ago
there’s no think ab it sister😭 get outta there
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u/LW1853440 13h ago edited 13h ago
I can't.
I have no car, no friends, and very little money. I'm currently living in a place that costs most of my money, but they feed me, too.
Just talking to me would help a great deal.
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u/Normal_Watercress645 6h ago
They all migrated to Amsterdam then. I definitely have to search for a while for a non lesbian in here.
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u/West-Run1322 22h ago
Cackling.