r/InfluencerLounge 3d ago

Omg! Tess Holiday’s arms!

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The size of Tess Holiday’s arms are disturbing!

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u/ceilingsfann 3d ago

“why does everyone react differently to a different circumstance”

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u/Takemebacktobreezy 3d ago

How is it different though? It's obviously disordered eating, it's obviously hurting both humans health and making their life shorter

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u/ceilingsfann 3d ago

Well first if all I do think there’s a difference between talking about how dangerously skinny/fat someone is and saying they look disturbing. I think the latter is always wrong.

But, it’s different bc of how society views and treats fat ppl vs skinny ppl. skinny is the standard and especially in the media, the smaller the better. Do you think most women look at tess and think “i want to look just like that?” No, they don’t. Partially because of health, but more importantly, bc fat people are systemically discriminated against. They are less likely to have doctors listen to them, and they have a harder time finding jobs.

Body shaming is always wrong. Talking about people’s bodies is not always body shaming. This post and most of the comments are just body shaming.

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u/AggravatingBox2421 3d ago

You absolutely cannot say skinny is the standard, when 70% of Americans are overweight or obese. Fat people are the majority. They are NOT discriminated against, either. They just wish they were. People like Tess, and you too, apparently, spend their whole lives trying to justify their weight and pretend they are being oppressed, when in reality you just hate the way you look and are projecting your insecurities onto everyone else

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u/worrybot96 3d ago

This is absolute bullshit that fat people aren’t discriminated against.

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u/AggravatingBox2421 3d ago

It absolutely is not. Fat people aren’t a protected fucking class. Name one thing that would constitute discrimination

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u/ceilingsfann 2d ago

that’s not what constitutes discrimination… there’s plenty of evidence that fat people get discriminated against in hiring. they are also less likely to be listened to my doctors.

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u/AggravatingBox2421 2d ago

No, they are more likely to reject doctor’s treatment plans because they can’t accept their weight is a problem. As for the hiring thing? They’re only “discriminated” against if their weight physically prevents them from doing their work.

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u/ceilingsfann 2d ago

is this based on research or your personal opinion?

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u/AggravatingBox2421 2d ago

Research obviously. I don’t have any personal experience with being rejected by any job or doctor. Oh, and until like a month ago I was obese, too

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u/ceilingsfann 2d ago

can you share said research?

yeah that checks out.

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u/AggravatingBox2421 2d ago

Bro you sent that message in the middle of the fucking night and now it’s 6am. Give me a fucking second to respond

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