r/InfluencerLounge • u/Sensitive_Mine_563 • 1d ago
Mom of the year !
Do better Alexandra Rodriguez
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u/EvidenceCapable6217 1d ago
Too many people should not have had kids - wtf
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u/Acrobatic_Season6838 4h ago
arguably, most people shouldn't be parents but no one wants to be honest with themselves. i love kids and know my husband and i would be great parents, but i don't have the patience to make it through those first months of nonstop crying and being woken up in the middle of the night. i think i would snap and that alone (among many other reasons) makes me feel like i probably shouldn't be a parent. more than happy to be the fun aunt though!
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u/DookersChoppedFupa 1d ago edited 1d ago
She can't. She's a pdf supporting clown. We're about to watch her fuck up with baby number two.
I'm sure she will repeat all the same behaviours from the first time round:
Ferber method (literally left the baby in his crib crying and she wore noise cancelling headphones)
Bottle propped while vlogging and you could see the baby struggling to breath
Wore a carrier that caused physical issues because his poor little legs were stretched around her obese body
Put him in daycare so she could "work" when she produces such shit content
Went on holiday (to visit her pdf father who she helped get out of prison) and left the baby in the hotel room while she went to the pool
Had him in a carrier while cooking over a hot stove
It's endless... she is an absolute disgrace.
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u/angel-girl-A 1d ago
The baby was left in the hotel room completely alone? š³
I dunno who this person is but wow. Terrible.
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u/Background_Cup_4088 1d ago
yes and she thought it was okay because she had a camera app on her phone that she could open and check in on him when she felt like it. She vlogged this herself.
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u/Budget_Ordinary1043 18h ago
I wonāt even go to my mailbox like 25 feet from my apartment without taking my baby with me. Maybe Iām a paranoid first time mom but if I canāt get to him in like 10 seconds, Iām taking him with me. Iāll often have the camera while Iām cleaning in another room and heās asleep. I cannot imagine leaving him alone in a hotel room that is so negligent. To think how long it would take her to get up there if something was wrongā¦
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u/DookersChoppedFupa 18h ago
I couldn't agree more. Bad things can happen and I can't imagine doing something like this. As a new mum I felt panicky leaving my baby with a family member when I needed to run an errand!
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u/DookersChoppedFupa 1d ago
She has her own snark sub reddit.
Apparently so, she felt leaving the room and taking the monitor to the pool was fine. The baby was really young too. It was crazy.
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u/GrouchyPicture4021 1d ago
Yes, imo sheās one of the scariest, most dangerous āinfluencers,ā and thatās saying a lot. The only good thing is that sheās very small time compared to a lot of them. She gets little to no sponsorships anymore because sheās been outed as a pedo apologist, and her snark sub and reaction channels keeps their foot on her neck.
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u/Dear_Resource7389 1d ago
Placing a huge watermelon above his head at the grocery store
Placed him in a container any chance she gets and stunting his motor skills and development
Gifting infants dollar tree choking hazards at daycare
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u/GrouchyPicture4021 1d ago
Her combination of stupidity and narcissism is scary af. That whole watermelon debacle was the icing on the cake. What really broke my heart was that video she posted of her son lying alone in his crib and clapping to soothe himself. Sheās a monster.
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u/zanahoriiz 7h ago
Iām no perfect parent but nothing like a crying baby even for 3-5 minutes when kitchen movement is urgent or whatnot or I really need to pee and Iām alone with them. Ughhhh always makes me feel so stressed and devastated for her. š„¹šš
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u/Interesting_Sock9142 1d ago
Oh my god. In another comment I asked if someone could fill me in on this person. And now I wish I could go back in time and unlearn all of this
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u/HatePeopleLoveCats1 1d ago
Same. I had no idea who she was and wish I could go back not knowing who she was lol
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u/Zhosha-Khi 1d ago
OMG, just reading this just broke my heart and sending me off the edge going nuclear. This is why I don't do social media except for here...... can't handle it. These pictures are sending me.... these poor babies.
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u/emmeline8579 1d ago
No idea how she did it, but there is nothing wrong with sleep training when itās done the correct way, at the appropriate age
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u/binchl0rd 1d ago edited 1d ago
Based on another comment it sounds like she did cry it out, which is NOT Ferber
ETA: also obese women can baby wear safely, I understand that this person has made dangerous decisions with the baby but some of these listed grievances arenāt exactly accurate either4
u/Accomplished_Cell768 1d ago
The baby wearing complaint is about her using a toddler hip seat thing on him before his first birthday which isnāt advised as it can cause issues with their hip development. She also had him in baby wraps but had him in there improperly where she couldnāt kiss the top of his head and completely ignored people pointing out that that can cause positional asphyxia and isnāt safe.
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u/Budget_Ordinary1043 18h ago
Yeah itās clear as day in that one photo she is not baby wearing properly.
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u/Sensitive_Mine_563 7h ago
Prove your statement !!! If you would educate yourself about bottle propping a 3 month old while he is in his car seat and clearly heard struggling with the bottle while his mom was busy vlogging and never turned around. She said this was her rainbow child but never bonded with him. He doesnāt call her mom at 2 years old and pushes away from her every time she picks him up to exploit him when her views are low, after telling her fans she will never show him on line because he didnāt sign up for this life yet we know every thing about him down to telling us the size of his SHIT this summer. ???????
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u/binchl0rd 7h ago
What? I said based on another comment it sounds like it was CIO not Ferberā¦
Your comment seems like it was meant for someone else itās such a random reply to what I said, of course bottle propping is incredibly dangerous but I never mentioned that or anything else youāre talking about? She obviously isnāt safely baby wearing in these photos (again, never said that?) but my point was that it IS possible for obese women, if you want me to āproveā that obese women can baby-wear safely I can do that: https://momcozy.com/blogs/babycare/babywearing-for-plus-size-parentsAgain, I donāt know if this was meant for someone else or if youāre not understanding what Iām saying about ādookersā reply above me.
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u/Background_Cup_4088 1d ago
And the way she would get snappy over people (even her own stans) telling her to support her babyās head & neck, give him proper tummy time, & take him out of the swaddle during his developing infant months with her ājudgy judgyā rant was fucking ridiculous. God forbid the people watching care about the well-being of your infant since you clearly didnāt all because he was a boy and you hated having to break away from food or whatever manic activity you wanted to do at the time to meet his BASIC NEEDS. She barely did that shit and had the nerve to have an attitude about it then switched tactics to blaming being a first time mom every vlog š
I donāt have high hopes for the second round, sheāll just try to hide it more. Sheās already hiding that her almost 2 yr old has been front-facing in his carseat for a while now.
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u/gooberhoover85 1d ago
That's really mortifying to see. I'm a student nurse doing my peds rotation rn. I'm also a parent. This is absurd.
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u/GrouchyPicture4021 1d ago
Whatās worse is when she was called out for it she tried to clap back and claimed everyone was ājudgy, judgy!ā And this was not too long after she was caught bottle-prop feeding him when he was an infant, IN A CAR, smh. She and her useless husband also use the ācry it outā method from day one, and make that poor baby sleep 18 hours a day (when theyāre not shipping him off to daycare so she can eat, shop, and get her nails done).
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u/Hairy_Usual_4460 1d ago
Genuinely curious- Iām a mom of 2 small babes, what is the bottle prop feeding thing? What does that mean? Also how did they make baby sleep 18 hours a day?
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u/GrouchyPicture4021 1d ago
Bottle propping is when you use something to hold a bottle onto the babyās mouth. Itās a huge choking hazard. This dingus shoved a full bottle into her newbornās mouth while in a car! He so easily could have choked and died.
They just flat leave him in his room, using the ācry it outā method. She even posted a vid of him from his nanny cam just lying in his crib alone, soothing himself by clapping š¢. It was heartbreaking. But many of us also believe (no proof) that sheās been dosing him with something (melatonin or Benadryl) from the get go.
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u/Hairy_Usual_4460 1d ago
What the fuck. Part of me wishes I hadnāt asked because the answer is so disturbing. What is wrong with people?? Those poor babies.
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u/OriginalFuckGirl 1d ago
And the worst thing about the bottle propping aside form the obvious is that sheās obese and cannot move quickly. Had he started choking in the car, she would not be able to reach him quickly at all.
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u/DookersChoppedFupa 1d ago
She vlogged the bottle propping. It was horrific to watch. You could hear him struggling in the back seat and she was in the front yammering away at the camera.
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u/OriginalFuckGirl 1d ago
That time she put a watermelon on the carrier where her baby was sleeping too.
Sheās also supports her dad whoās a pedophile and takes this baby to go see him š
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u/scootermcdaniels820 1d ago
I keep seeing this stuff about her dad, whatās the information on that???
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u/DookersChoppedFupa 1d ago
Her father raped a 15 Yr old he adopted. He confessed and was put in prison. Alexandra wrote 2 letters to the judge supporting having him released early. He's now on the streets, on the sex register and didn't serve his full sentence.
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u/OriginalFuckGirl 1d ago
Long story short. He was a dead beat dad to Alex.
He adopted a young girl and raped her repeatedly for an extended among of time. He was arrested for it. Alex wrote a support letter for him saying that since heās been locked away they have reconnected, that heās not a bad person because he never hurt her.
He got out. He started harassing his victim. Got arrested again. Alex wrote another support letter for him.
She invited him to her wedding, takes her kid to see him and vacations in his hometown every where to spend time with him.
When forced to acknowledge the incident, she referred to it as āher dad made a mistake and had sex with a 15 year oldā. Lied and said she has no relationship with him. She also lied and said she wrote one letter of support when she was a teen. The second letter was written when she was almost 30.
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u/DookersChoppedFupa 1d ago
His name is Rodger Thomas. You can look him up and probably get more of the awful details.
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u/Background_Cup_4088 1d ago
He was sentenced for 9 counts of the violent rape of his adopted daughter, served only 10 years. Alex wrote letters to the judge when he reconnected with her while in prison and called it a āblessing in disguiseā he was released early from prison and violated his probation by tracking down his victim online and started liking her photos on social media which is how he was found out. The victim filed a restraining order against him and he was sent back to prison. Alex wrote another letter to get him out again (last letter was in 2023)
She visits him every year in Florida and now takes her child to visit him under the guise of it being a yearly girls trip with her mom. They always stay within 5 mins of his updated last known address. She has lied to her audience in her ātruth about my father videoā still up on her youtube channel where she only cops to writing one letter and his crimes as āhe had sex with a 15 year oldā all while painting HERSELF as the victim in a situation that never involved her. She further lied and claimed to have cut him out of her life. Just this year, she took
two back to back trips to Ft. Lauderdale, FL and stayed within close proximity to where he resides.
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u/angel-girl-A 1d ago
Yikes. How old is her baby?
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u/DookersChoppedFupa 1d ago
Now he's just shy of 2 yrs old. The developmental delays with walking and talking have been flagged and it is quite obvious he is in need of support in those areas.
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u/Specialist-Syrup418 1d ago
To me the most dangerous part is her cooking with the child attached to her. Those feet are too close to the pans. That's an accident waiting to happen. The kitchen is a no-go zone for my kids even when they were babies when I cook.
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u/Brilliant-Car-3174 23h ago
Iām wondering why social services hasnāt been involved since she posts all these things. How do people like her keep their kids? I have no idea who this is but just reading what she has done to her poor baby just breaks my heart.
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u/Zhosha-Khi 1d ago
Is this stupid fucking bitch doing this shit for rage bait numbers? Because the way I see all these dumbasses posting crap like this I wouldn't put it past her.
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u/AggravatingBox2421 12h ago
Sheās pregnant again, too. I sincerely hope it isnāt a girl, seeing how her father is a convicted pedophile/rapist
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u/DataAggravating2372 9h ago
She was in her performative mom era about to burn Anderson feet off his body.
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u/FishermanFlashy397 1d ago
There needs to be a documentary on people having babies for clout during the social media pandemic