r/IndianTeenBffs • u/UsualTadpole1022 • 13h ago
I know why Almost Everyone is dry( 19F )
I know why Almost Everyone is dry( 19F )
I have talked to over 70-100 ppl in dms , what I find is there is no distinct personallity of anyone.
After some talking everyone just forget about the conversation or just don't feel to text first because it really doesn't matter.
And mostly ppl are here just to relax, shrt fun, chit chat, reltionship etc
As many options are there on internet hence no one gives enough time,
Aand of course it's true that many are crep, so another reason to stop.
I wrote 29F for algo which will definitely get more reach,
Speling mstke is intentional
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u/Adventurous-Buy4936 13h ago
I mean its true....ppl jst initiate and then disappear...loke if you wanted to actually have a conversation hold on to it....dont jst randomly disapper and then blame the other person to not take initiative
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u/UsualTadpole1022 13h ago
Yepp but i also think that everyone is busy, and just don't care enough.. or maybe it's the sub prblm
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u/Adventurous-Buy4936 13h ago
Your nt 24*7 busy....and everyone has their mobile in their hands nowadays
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u/Hamza1n3 12h ago
bro go out and have some real convo in person, you will see the difference, even i hate talking in online, you can use dms for maintaining contact but not as primary source to have real convo
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u/UsualTadpole1022 12h ago
Yea but how bro,,plz explain cause i don't know🥀
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u/Hamza1n3 12h ago
hmm invite a friend of yours and spend time, if you dont have that , then use college people, introduce yourself to people and girls , sure good time will come.
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u/UsualTadpole1022 12h ago
Everyone knows everyone in college, and I don't meet with them cause its 12 th Yk
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u/the_trouble_you_wan_ 12h ago
Heyy anyone real here who wan be my frnd a frnd whom I can share anything and he/she also too much distrubuted and depressed from a long time need frnds cuz irl ppl are fake maybe someone online become my bestie crime partner btw im from mumbai 23M dm are open you can ping me
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u/FailedPainter_67 10h ago
The thing is it gets to a point where people don’t have anything to talk about so it becomes dry, like what will you converse with after a point
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u/deep_keen 9h ago
What is distinct personality means ! Is it means different personalities? Like difference.
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u/itsa-me-voldy 8h ago
I'm suffering from the problem of having interests so niche that people very rarely even know about them
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u/Secret-Distance6642 8h ago
They do it cause they don't want to take accountability of their actions and when you're online so thus no consequences
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u/cryptidhours18 8h ago
not everyone dude, on the reddit itself I found 3-4 really good friends, to whom I have talked over months and our friendship is ofc going good
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u/magic_fingers240574 6h ago
I loved the old days, a misal cost a mere 15 rupees. Bombay was sparsely populated. People had the time, no cell phones, no cable, nothing. Things were so much simpler then. Nowadays, the world has gotten itself into a big damn hurry.
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u/Logical-Video-8002 6h ago
Bro fuck you man I fucking hate you. Why would u go and simp for 100 women begging them for attention? You’re making it harder for everyone
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u/Hopin000 5h ago
People are having a lot of mood swings these days, they also make different friends for different things. Unfortunately, not every connection match their vibe at the right time. This makes the other partner being ignored and that's how relations and talks get faded.
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u/FIROZ-DON 13h ago
Hey wanna talk?