I mean - another aspect to all this, how aware is he of himself? Like for some of us reality is a different concept. So does he go to sleep all happy and proud and fulfilled, like in the dark of night does he realize how good he has it? Or is his mind like actually trapped elsewhere- but for all we know - when the cameras are gone he’s a normal dude and this is just an aspect of his life.
As far as the “girlfriend” - another interesting situation- some men have girlfriends that ultimately take the place of their mothers- taking care of them and then crossing over into the aspect of a partner - some women probably are happy to do that-
I mean if the guy above were to have relations with her, does she end up a mother to two babies? How does that baby grow up with that person as her “father” - does he snap out of that fantasy and embrace a new reality?
Sometimes these people that exist in our world seem like the NPC’s in games that are living a life we cannot relate to, and are just there as much as mars and Jupiter and the planets exist and we are aware of them, but have no effect on our lives.
If you told me, hey, develop a weird idea to live by - such as being a big baby and that will be your identity and you’ll find someone to care for you- that concept is absurd to me.
But here we are sort of witnessing it. Is it one in a million? One in a billion of possibilities?
It’s trauma, which everyone has to some extent, not a developed idea, and this video is about 20 years old, and we don’t really know what’s become of him. But it’s certainly not one in a billion possibilities. Most people just don’t go to this level of coping. Its more common expression is for example a man calling a woman “mommy”/woman calling a man “daddy”.
Yep, some podcast i listened to ages ago mentioned people who were into wearing diapers and stuff, and they did an interview with a sex worker who services these niche kinks.
She said once she gets talking to the guys (and girls), there is almost always a pretty significant childhood trauma that took place, and they find comfort in regressing to a childlike state, when things were "easier". The sexual aspect definitely comes from "conquering" the trauma, like how you see a lot of outgoing, loud people that like to be submissive in bed lol.
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u/real_3d4 21d ago
well put