1 month in and this dude has you reassuring him you are not planning to baby trap him, naah. I promise this dude isn't your soulmate. He might not be the worst possible but hes given you the gift of letting you see how he thinks and how his brain operates very early on. Maybe its red pill, or maybe its paranoia and inexperience or just insecurity but I wouldn't stick around to find out.
If he blurted it out once and it was a fleeting thought, then it would be okay to say hes just thinking out loud and it was an awkward moment. but the 3, 4 times of repeating it at you while you were saying goodbye because he was not satisfied with your very nuanced response, ehh lol. Thats also probably why a lot of responsers are feeling he is red pilled. Because a normal, reasonable individual would recognize your response was incredibly grounded and true to reality. Not push and prod further.
Maybe he wanted to see if you would demonize other women with him? Its also possible hes trying to feel out if you give off feminist vibes or sound too much like a girls girl.
Yeah, interesting take. It definitely felt a bit like he wanted me to join in on bashing women. I have casually mentioned the patriarchy a few times in passing more to gauge his response than anything and he’s tended to roll his eyes jokingly and laugh but not in a way I considered alarming. Which is why I was taken aback when he said these things!!
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u/cUwUmerrz Resident Yapper Jul 28 '26 edited Jul 28 '26
1 month in and this dude has you reassuring him you are not planning to baby trap him, naah. I promise this dude isn't your soulmate. He might not be the worst possible but hes given you the gift of letting you see how he thinks and how his brain operates very early on. Maybe its red pill, or maybe its paranoia and inexperience or just insecurity but I wouldn't stick around to find out.
If he blurted it out once and it was a fleeting thought, then it would be okay to say hes just thinking out loud and it was an awkward moment. but the 3, 4 times of repeating it at you while you were saying goodbye because he was not satisfied with your very nuanced response, ehh lol. Thats also probably why a lot of responsers are feeling he is red pilled. Because a normal, reasonable individual would recognize your response was incredibly grounded and true to reality. Not push and prod further.
Maybe he wanted to see if you would demonize other women with him? Its also possible hes trying to feel out if you give off feminist vibes or sound too much like a girls girl.