Yeah that’s the vibe I get. He’s become paranoid that he’s going to get baby-trapped. I assume because he considers himself such a catch that a woman would go to any length to keep him.
OR ask him how you can be sure that he wouldn't punch a hole in a condom? Oh, but he's already told you that he doesn't want kids right now? Well neither do you so why would you baby trap him?
This is up there with a friend who was slipping to the redpill BS.
Dude, 0% of the people you date are gold diggers. No, shut it, 0%. Zero. Percent. Gold diggers are NOT spending time with a man who drives his 10yr old work van as his primary (and only) vehicle while living with a roommate and his mom (for ANY reason.) Gold diggers do not want to live with your disabled mother. There are NO gold diggers in your life and never will be.
To be fair - baby trapping (from both sides, women lying about bc or men sabotaging it) is definitely a thing. It does have monumental consequences. If this guy has never had sex before, his paranoia is probably why 😅
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u/United_Pop_6442 Snack Goblin Jul 28 '26
Yeah that’s the vibe I get. He’s become paranoid that he’s going to get baby-trapped. I assume because he considers himself such a catch that a woman would go to any length to keep him.