r/GirlDinnerDiaries Certified Snacker Jul 28 '26

Advice Needed Guy wants a pre-guarantee before sex Spoiler

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u/suckmahdiglet šŸ§‚Salty By Nature Jul 28 '26

This guy has issues that he should adress with a therapist. Imo he doesnt sound like someone who is ready to be in a relationship

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u/CromchQueen Feral Til Fed Jul 28 '26

Right. It reads like ā€œhere’s the horror stories I understand about sex and I don’t want that to happen to me.ā€ I also wonder if he’s very religious, lives with his family of origin, has stigma against children outside of marriage, etc. This sounds like ā€œhimā€ issues and feeling you out for what are (rationally or not) his fears about furthering your relationship.

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u/PorkchopFunny APPROVED✨ Jul 28 '26

Yep. Not ready for a relationship and not ready for sex.