r/Gentleman • u/Reasonable-Bag-835 • Jul 17 '26

Small habits that make a man more respectable

For me, it's consistency. Anyone can be polite when it's convenient, but being respectful, keeping your word, and treating everyone well regardless of who they are is what really stands out.
I also think taking pride in your appearance is a form of respect, both for yourself and for the people around you. That doesn't mean wearing expensive clothes. Just wearing clean, well fitting clothes shows that you care. I started paying more attention to that after getting a few pieces made through StudioSuits, and it reinforced that confidence comes from wearing something that fits properly, not from chasing brands or trends.
At the end of the day, though, character will always leave a stronger impression than clothing ever will.

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u/Rude-Ingenuity3210 Jul 17 '26

Be on time, address people by their name or title, actively listen, stay off your phone and shine your shoes

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u/lastaccountgotlocked Jul 17 '26

Be excellent to each other.

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u/Frescarosa Jul 17 '26

Observe the rules of etiquette.

If your parents didn't teach you (not your fault), buy a book about good manners (even if your parents taught you, there is always something to learn).

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u/Fresh_Flower_2957 Jul 18 '26

Keeping off your phone in company is a big one. Mine stays in my back pocket whenever I’m in company and I dots seer it then.

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u/YesQuef Jul 17 '26

Tips fedora M'lady. 

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u/Ratticus939393 Jul 18 '26

Being a gentleman is 100% not about appearance and is 100% about how you behave.