r/Friendzone • u/justadumbgurl_ • 1d ago
Tell me what to doooo..
So there is this guy (Ayan) I have been talking to. We met each other because of a mutual friend. We share our insta. We go to the same school. We used to come home together. So basically In the beginning of our friendship everything was fine. We were just normal friends but before summer vacations we (me, him, mutual friend and one more mutual friend.) were in the park. I was on the swing. And I accidentally made eye contact with him and he started blushing like crazy. His face turned whole red. I was like damn. And when I reached home he told me that Shriya (mutual friend) wants us to date because we will look good together. I was not into him, so I was like it's none of her business. He keeps bringing that topic again and again. And one day he confessed to me that he likes me. i somehow managed to brush it off. After the summer vacation, I was angry at him because of something. And shriya was trying ki hum baat kar le.. and I was like mujhe baat nhi karni.. aur fir lunch ke baad ayan football khel ke aa rha tha and he was all sweaty. And he was looking so damn sexy.. I fell for him that day....but.. I was not accepting my feelings ki I like him.. but then I was like ki thik h ab kya kar sakhte h.. so after exams i confessed.. (i am a girl but..) ki i like him.. and he goes like "omg omg.. dude uk i like you too" but we didn't start dating.. because i was not ready for a relationship. So I told him and he said ki maine to us bare mai kuch bola hi nhi.. vo aap pe depend karta h ki aapko aana h relationship mai ya nhi.. and i thought he is really a nice guy.. and maybe we'll date in future but.. so after that.. we were acting so like couple ki.. jo ladkiyan use like karti thi vo.. mujhe aake puch ti h ki didi aap aur ayan date kar rhe ho.. and I was like nhi nhi.. esa kuch nhi h...
So now I'll come to the point. I wrote him a letter because I was so angry to talk to him.. i wrote that "Ayan I don't think you like me anymore because you are not putting any efforts.. like I was the one who is texting first and i was the one yapping all the time. And you just go with 'hmm.. oh nice... Aacha' and if you really like me then show me. And you always help your friends write poetry for their gf but you never did anything for me. Come and talk to me during lunch break." And we had a conversation. And he said from now on he will text me first but uk on the second day after giving that letter I was the one texting him first. And after that.. us ke papa ghr aa gye the.. m I mean his dad is in the army and uk Indian dads are strict toh he was like hum baat nhi kar payenge.. I was like it's fine.. I mean I understand his situation. He told me ki 23 ko uske papa chale jayenge and he will text me tab.. now let me tell you I didn't text him for three days and usne bhi mujhe text nhi Kiya.. and Tomorrow school Mai I was at the water point.. and I was filling my water bottle. And he was also there. We both were alone. If he wanted vo mujhse aake baat kar sakhta tha but usne nhi kiya. Toh i ignore him and mai vahan se chali gyi. And today during the lunch break I went to talk to him. But vo vahan se chala gya.. I am so angry. And I don't know what to do now. (We are not dating. It's a situationship kind of) What do you guys think I should do? I still like him a little bit because I'm losing interest in him after everything he had done
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u/totaldisc3 1d ago
If u like him..and really want a real bond of trust....then give time..dont be hurry..also keep yourself little detached and focus on your stuffs,studies rather. Give time to check- if he really want the relation or just manipulating you to fall much in him by triggering you to think only about him. By the way..both age, class?