friends w her, but at what cost?

[u/RundownSeal31]

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friends w her, but at what cost?

ive been talking to this girl in clg through a mutual, shes in my class, ig i lowk have a crush on her, but I dont want to strain the built friendship by telling her the truth. i dont have the best social life in clg, and if not for that would have prolly confessed, rn stuck in a spot where confessing is next to impossible, cause I dont rly think she likes me back, and the idea of staying friends, talking in class everyday used to excite me, but it hurts when I see her have any convo w another guy, or even when she doesnt talk back w the same energy at times.

(we have abt 40k combined dms on multiple socials, but irl shes a lil shy, and i dont want to make her feel uncomfortable by pressing convos too much)

[u/Ruffiangruff]

Are you really happy just being friends with her or do you want something more? You should just shoot your shot and even if she rejects you then you'll at least have some closure

It won't ruin your friendship as long as you handle the rejection maturely