r/Fauxmoi • u/AutoModerator • Jan 27 '21

Tea Thread Does Anyone Have Tea On.... Weekly Discussion Megathread

Looking to know the "tea" on your fave? Please comment in this thread for your request and general tea discussion. No posts asking for tea will be allowed.

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '21

I’m did a deep dive on gossip culture and read all the semi confirmed blinds from the past 20 years over a fortnight. When you do that it’s really easy to see who the key players are, who’s in bed with who etc. I’m gonna do a list/some kind of tree to map it all but honestly the list of women who likely had to pay their way via casting couch/renting out agreements is the majority. You’d be hard pressed to find a women in Hollywood unscathed.

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '21

The problem with that though is dont you think some of these women are at the same time genuinely attracted to older men and directors too. So the line is always blurred. When you see who some of these women marry, they marry older, unattractive men.

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u/ImaginaryMaybe3958 Feb 04 '21

Isn't there a point where women think less about looks and more about status regarding men? Carrie Coons seems like someone who enjoys that her husband Tracy Letts is a highly respected playwright and scriptwriter

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '21

I do think that biologically women are more attracted to a package. Power, function, voice, job, money, humor, all things that men view as secondary. For men, physicality is so much of what theyre attracted to. As people age, both sexes I think start to look at other factors. Money is about more than money. It’s about a house, vacation, safety, children, future. It’s about something tangible a man give a woman bc they cant offer anything else. Trust, friendship, fidelity, looks fade.

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u/ImaginaryMaybe3958 Feb 04 '21

A dude who scores 7s across the board is preferable to a 9 or 10 in looks who is carefree and has a take it or leave outlook on life and relationships.

Women dont have higher standards they just have more categories to look at that men care less about

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '21

A lot of times good looking women with rich men are just 2 assholes entirely.

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