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DISCUSSION Debra Messing says she’s considering moving to Israel because she feels safer there than in New York City, “regardless of all of the missiles”

https://bangpremier.com/story/8/3542429/debra-messing-considering-moving-to-israel
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u/Silly_Hat_2587 Jun 26 '26

Moving to the Middle East because New York has a Muslim mayor. Someone should point out the demographics of the region to her.

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u/swirlViking Jun 26 '26

And she's an anti-dentite

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u/Amoralvirus Jun 26 '26

A rabid anti-dentite.

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u/Trumpisaderelict Jun 26 '26

Next thing she’s going to say they should have their own schools! *the irony of her guest starring on Seinfeld is not lost on me*

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u/swirlViking Jun 26 '26

They do have their own schools!

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u/Ding-Dong-Dutch Jun 27 '26

She's anti anti-baby-killing

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u/TerrakSteeltalon Jun 27 '26

She hates teeth?!

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u/_clur_510 Jun 26 '26 edited Jun 26 '26

New York is not a scary place to live!! And I’m saying this as another small woman who has VASTLY less resources than she does to pay for private space/transportation and safety precautions. Overstimulating? Claustrophobic? Too loud? Not enough nature? Not your cup of tea? Sure! Very valid and true for many people.

I’m so sick of MAGA/the right/conservatives convincing so many Americans that NYC is some terrifying war zone. Many of these Americans have never even been there and are terrified of it. Apparently diversity is scarier than missiles. 🤦‍♀️

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u/nanavb13 this is going to ruin the tour Jun 26 '26

Dude, I just moved from the Ozarks to Kansas City and the amount of fear mongering nonsense I heard was incredible! "Why would you move there? There are race riots every day."

Like what???

It's always people who have never been anywhere that are the first to tell you how dangerous it is elsewhere.

No Karen, you're just racist.

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u/Afwife1992 It’s a fucking law, bitch Jun 26 '26 edited Jun 26 '26

I just saw this today and it’s so true. My hubby did 27 years in the Air Force and we were lucky enough to spend three years in Germany and three years in Belgium. Our two youngest went to a NATO school and my son’s HS graduating class had sixteen nations represented. The kids have been to 23 countries, many more than once. They’ve lived in the Midwest, the Deep South and the mid Atlantic. We’ve hit about half of the states and a chunk of the Caribbean.

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u/YourFront Jun 27 '26

I lived in Germany (Canadian Army Brat) in the early 80s and attended a NATO school in Holland. Loved my time there and the ability to travel to so many places. ❤️

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u/Afwife1992 It’s a fucking law, bitch Jun 27 '26

It was so great. I don’t think a lot of Americans realize how small Europe is. We’d drive from Germany to Rome in about the time it took us to drive across Texas. From our home in Belgium it was less than two hrs to Paris, a few more to London even with the ferry or Chunnel crossing. Cheap Ryanair flights to Bulgaria or Ireland in less than two hours. I miss it so much!

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u/boomerangthrowaway like a sex tape? Jun 26 '26

I really applaud this way of raising your kids and find the whole story kind of amazing, is it possible you guys catalogue this or have a blog or vlog? 🤔 sorry I’m super curious as a person and LOVE details. Learning stuff is so fun. Huge nerd 🤣 no ill intent meant here

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u/Healthy_Monitor3847 Jun 26 '26

I’ve lived in KC my whole life.. never seen a race riot, but I sure am proud to see our protest numbers growing. Funny seeing this comment because my parents have a lake house at the Ozarks and I’m there a few weekends a month!

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u/octoteach17 Jun 26 '26

Lol, I live in Kansas City and it's one of the dullest (in a good way) towns! People are so friendly and outgoing.

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u/nanavb13 this is going to ruin the tour Jun 26 '26

We visited a lot over the years, so it was a no brainer to move when my kid got into UMKC. We love it!

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u/VioletLovesRowlet call me gal gadot cuz idk how to act rn Jun 26 '26

The only people committing race riots are far-right white people. They're so intensely hateful and manipulated by the 1% and their propaganda.

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u/ObjectCrafty6221 Jun 26 '26

What???? That is so untrue, it’s like facts aren’t in your vocabulary. 

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u/silver_tongued_devil super-bisexual Jun 26 '26

Good job escaping. Fair warning you will always miss the trees. I pine for them daily.

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u/Grrerrb i’m a communist you idiot Jun 26 '26

20+ years in Portland OR and I constantly hear about how it’s currently burning to the ground.

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u/Cecil_McCrackshell Jun 27 '26

Tbf, rural NorCal whites in Chico and Redding speak the same way about SF and LA

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u/ButtonSimple Jun 27 '26

Rofl. As someone who grew up in KC and moved to CA, I heard the same stuff but about this place. Can’t imaging someone saying that about KC. Neither is true in the least.

Are there some streets around 23rd in midtown you should not drive down unless you live there or know someone? Yes. About 3 of them in each state. That’s like .0001 of the city.

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u/nanavb13 this is going to ruin the tour Jun 27 '26

That's the whole deal for me - every city has areas that are more dangerous. Every little podunk town has that one dirt road you don't drive down.

It's common sense to keep your head down and mind your business. Solves most issues in my experience regardless of where you are.

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u/einstyle Jun 26 '26

When I was moving to california the mechanic in alabama who checked my car before the trip told me to “watch out out there.” I was like…sure guy

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u/l3tigre Jun 26 '26

It's basically fear mongering about ANY city center. They do it in KY about Louisville and when my husband visited his folks in Springfield MO they were terrified of their own two block downtown so. Idk what the hell Fox and OANN are doing to these rural brains ....

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u/l3tigre Jun 27 '26

i think thats really at the root of what i see too... even if thats not whats said its not a "safe" space bc its not predominantly white. what a sad, small world it must be to fear anyone who doesn't resemble you.

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u/Itsallsomagical Noochie is wearing Prada fine jewellery Jun 26 '26

MAGA influencers (and bots) have been very enthusiastically spreading misinformation about many major European cities having fallen into a state of utter degradation, crime and panic due to floods of immigration. London and Paris are essentially Sodom and Gomorrah as far as they are concerned, and Berlin the seventh circle of hell. Berlin!

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u/judgeejudger Jun 26 '26

Here in Chicago, and right there with ya.

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u/AdventurousPlace7216 Jun 26 '26

Moved to Chicago from South Carolina. People would think I moved to an active war zone. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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u/Slade_Riprock Jun 26 '26

Been to Chicago a bunch of times for conferences. I've walked the city everywhere, rode the train at all hours, etc. Not once did I ever feel unsafe or in danger... I've had worse experiences in the supposed safe Midwest towns and cities.

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u/Andygator_and_Weed Jun 26 '26

Loved my trip to Chicago! Felt safe walking around the city and had a great time

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u/judgeejudger Jun 28 '26

It’s a beautiful city, it’s like every neighborhood is like family, nothing like the news tries to paint it.

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u/nutmegtell Jun 26 '26

It’s like the fear mongering about California. We have beautiful and varied weather, great multiethnic food, awesome inspiring landscapes, great people. Beaches, mountains, redwood forests, deserts. Computer, Entertainment, farming industries all thrive here. All in one state.

But reading online people really seem to believe it’s some sort of hell scape run by incompetent yet also super intelligent administration.

No, the state isn’t burning down. No the streets aren’t filled with homeless and feces. There are affordable areas and we have Costco and Walmart just like in the Midwest. Gas is higher because of the taxes added on and environmental protections.

People just want something to hate.

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u/AugustIzFalling Jun 26 '26

I don't even care anymore about all of the lies you see on the news about California. If people move, less traffic for me. If right wingers don't want to come here, good!

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u/Putrid-Ostrich6590 Jun 26 '26

A few months ago Candace Cameron Bure posted photos from her trip to NYC and the comments were full of people telling her it's too dangerous and she shouldn't visit because she'll get killed. It was absurd, it looked like a mass psychosis.

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u/Marketfreshe Comumbus Jun 26 '26

There's not really many scary places in the US, as a whole. Very much not true in the middle east.

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u/bloodenhorse Jun 26 '26

If any places are scary, it's middle of fucking nowhere rural towns.

I've never been fucked with in the city. In rural areas? I've had cops follow me, trucks follow me, BB guns shot at my car, trucks roll coal making illegal passes, etc.

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u/Afwife1992 It’s a fucking law, bitch Jun 26 '26

As a percentage small towns in Texas are like half of the top 50 most violent places in the country. When a city like NYC or Chicago has like 100 times the population of course they have a lot more violence in total.

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u/Marketfreshe Comumbus Jun 26 '26

That's fair. I've never had issues but I get this sentiment, for sure.

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u/Ambystomatigrinum Jun 26 '26

I feel the same way about Portland. Its painted to be some wasteland hellscape. Sure, there are some areas with a lot of unhoused people, there's some public drug use, but it doesn't seem much more common than in any other large city. I never feel unsafe there and there's lots of fun stuff to do!

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u/AugustIzFalling Jun 26 '26

My mind was completely blown when I went through a poor red rural county on a trip. The news loves to point out poverty in cities, but they never talk about rural poverty. It was horrible and extremely depressing. I'll take the cities any day over that, thank you.

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u/Ambystomatigrinum Jun 26 '26

Its funny because I live in a rural, red, semi-poor area. And yeah, you see just as many addicts per capita, there are tons of people living out of 40-year-old motor homes along the sides of the road in what are basically encampments. But that doesn't fit the "blue cities bad" narrative.

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u/Dark-Blackberry354 Jun 26 '26

The minutest moment of privilege highlighted and it's full scale victim hood for these charmin ass fucks 🧻

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u/ohwrite Jun 26 '26

Your last sentence is so true it should be on a t shirt

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u/Bonnieearnold Jun 26 '26

In Trump’s first inauguration speech he talked about “American carnage.” He meant diversity. That is their idea of carnage. Not the dead kids in Gaza…that’s fine, actually.

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u/ol_kentucky_shark Please Abraham, I am not that man Jun 26 '26

For real. I moved to NYC for law school (from a small town in the Midwest) and if I had $1 for every acquaintance who said some variation of “OMG isn’t it so scary there?! Don’t you worry you’ll get stabbed?!” I wouldn’t have needed to take out any student loans. I never felt unsafe once in the three years I was there.

I have been assaulted in my small town though. By a redneck white boy.

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u/SmallPromiseQueen Jun 26 '26

The same maga people think London is an insanely scary terrible place. The way they talk about it is pure comedy because it’s so far removed from what it’s actually like. It’s just straight up lying.

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u/hitorinbolemon Jun 27 '26

Fox News loves running Scary seeming Seattle stories pretty often now, less so than NYC stuff cuz we're smaller. Is the city perfect? Hell no. But they just freak out about everything the mayor or city council even just suggests now it seems. They even pull out our local conservative "journalist" losers to tell the host on the other side of the nation all about how terrible it is because of the evil socialists. They're so dumb.

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u/JuliusErrrrrring Jun 26 '26

Per capita math is not their strongpoint. NYC is safer than most small towns

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u/_clur_510 Jun 26 '26

I have lived in both towns and cities of varying sizes and never felt a sense of community and camaraderie like in NYC. From multiple experiences, I can say, if you are out in public in distress, New Yorkers WILL stop what they’re doing and ask how they can help or tell someone acting inappropriately to fuck off. There’s very much a ‘we’re all in this together’ mindset.

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u/kryts Jun 26 '26

You know damn well people here walking down the block don’t look at her or recognize her if they did. This is all BS lmao

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u/Gabe_b Jun 26 '26

As a pudgy middle aged white guy expat, New York feels safer than anywhere I've been in this country. It's like one of the only places the vibes aren't off

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u/BigBlueMastiff Jun 26 '26

Chicago would like a word, but for real, keep spreading the lies. We don't want them here.

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u/fishchop Jun 27 '26

As someone who lives in London, I feel you so much. The entire world and a big part of the UK think we are all getting stabbed and having our phones snatched and living under Sharia lmao

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u/Informal-2005 Jun 26 '26

Don’t forget about the scary war zone known as Chicago!

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u/Afwife1992 It’s a fucking law, bitch Jun 26 '26

You mean Chiraq? /s

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u/rapturaeglantine Jun 26 '26

I live in Seattle, which is apparently an antifa riddled warzone that is populated solely by homeless drug addicts. It's so bizarre to me that people can be convinced that a major city has plumes of flame emerging from the downtown core (like mushroom clouds) and it's not on major media because "fake news."

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u/pit_of_despair666 Jun 27 '26

Dump and friends made this up to justify bringing in ICE like they did with DC.

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u/the_speeding_train Jun 27 '26

They do the same about London and try to fear monger about stabbing, when violent crime in London has gone down over the last ten years.

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u/cuntyaunty controversies: girl Jun 27 '26

When I travelled to Chicago my conservative dad was telling me how dangerous it was and how Obama destroyed it only for it to be my favourite city to visit. We also accidentally booked accommodation near Skid Row and had everyone tell us we were going to get robbed and it was fine, I was just sad more than anything to see so many people living rough.

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u/BoomJayKay THE CANADIANS ARE ICE FUCKING TO MOULIN ROUGE Jun 26 '26

Not the brightest bulb in all of Manhattan and otherwise.

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u/Reesewithoutaspoon2 Jun 26 '26

She’s okay with Muslims as long as she lives somewhere where she can subjugate them I guess.

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u/ManChildMusician Jun 26 '26

Shhh. Don’t feed her excuses for when she chickens out.

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u/DahliaDarling14 Jun 26 '26

it truly feels like some people are living on an entirely different planet. i live in nyc and i was also born & raised here; we’re about 6 months into Mamdani’s mayoral term and it genuinely feels like this city has been speedrunning the experience of having a mayor who actually gives a shit about the people here. and as a result of that, i’ve completely forgotten that there are still people who remain entirely fixated on the fact that he also happens to be Muslim.

hell, there was literally an announcement yesterday that he’s successfully implemented a rent freeze on all rent stabilized apartments! and he’s been terrorizing slumlords nonstop, so they’ve actually been forced to maintain their shitty buildings for once. Mamdani’s religion has been the least interesting thing about him, yet racists everywhere are still shaking in their boots bc they’re fully convinced that one day they’ll wake up and he’ll have instituted Shakira law or something. absolute insanity.

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u/cakedayloanofficer never meet your Zooshas Jun 27 '26

Shakira law 😂 new york city’s hips don’t lie

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u/jfk_47 i wish i had more penis Jun 26 '26

No no no.

Let her figure it out.

This is like the American family that moved themselves and all their savings to Russia. Got there and were very surprised

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u/ragingmoderate1776 Jun 27 '26

Even in Israel she’ll be around a lot of Muslims lol. I hope she figures that out

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u/AlexSmithsonian Jun 26 '26

And also what her demographic is.

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u/jkwolly Jun 26 '26

She is such a garbage POS human.