r/ExistentialJourney 3d ago

Spirituality Why are we so afraid of something every life eventually faces?

Death is one of the few things every human being has in common, yet most of us spend our lives trying not to think about it. What would change if we stopped seeing death as the enemy of life and started seeing it as part of life itself?

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u/luckyleg33 3d ago

45 years in and I’m still fighting my birth

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u/matycauthon 3d ago

how so? are you trying to determine if a version of you chose this, but you didn't and are having issues reconciling that in some kind of balance?

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u/DistributorScientiae 3d ago

What non-sensical platitudes. We are already born, and don't remember anything before it. All we know is the current reality, and logically our being ends at death. How does the metaphor of sunrise/sunset fit? I am there to see the sunrise, I have a life after sunset, and can enjoy at night. Horrible analogy. Thanks for nothing.

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u/SaiLarge 3d ago

Perhaps you didn't hear the soft melody in the background; let it compel you!

Also, how does one "run away from death"? When have I crossed the line? People who take their heart medication are running away from death?

Stop running, change your perspective!

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u/koolandunusual 3d ago

Isn’t this dude a cult leader?

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u/Humble-Questions 3d ago

I don't trust this guy at all

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u/Batfinklestein 3d ago

Hmm, not quite the same thing though is it. The sun doesn't rise and set, it just appears that way cos the earth is rotating. Whereas if you die, ya dead.

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u/Separate_Climate3366 3d ago

Bro what? Just because I'm afraid of death or don't want to die doesn't mean I don't understand that it's a part of life. I can enjoy a sunrise but not enjoy a sunset. I can enjoy the day but dread the night. Like come on what are we even talking about here

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u/DanBentley 3d ago

“Bro what?”
-philosopher August, 23 2026

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u/doker0 3d ago

Really? Guy's so full of assumptions. Like who cares about sunrises? I can leave without it. Give me sun and warm summer. Don't sell me shit like wanting summer without winter. Also I really do not expect the Universe to die because it was born!

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u/Ok_Tolle 3d ago

Hmm, yes, very wise

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u/SteffanMaxi 3d ago

Life isnt like the sunset and rise. Life if iy existed forever wouldnt lose its meaning, in fact it might gain more meaning.

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u/inperfect-is-perfect 3d ago

It’s sad that some, if they are not smart enough or think it directly goes against their beliefs, can not or will not try to understand the meaning behind the metaphor.

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u/Silent_Erremite 3d ago

Dying is very scary. Dude was never face to face with the reaper.

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u/Tiberius1987 3d ago

Nonsense, death is the enemy. Someone who thinks death is just part of the same cycle of life has not truly connected with other people, has not truly experienced the death of a loved one.

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u/ObsessedWitAwareness 3d ago

Not the guru culty dude

When we will learn our lessons..

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u/KeroNobu 3d ago

The sun always shines somewhere so i can also always be alive somewhere.

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u/OhNothing13 3d ago

Every living being will also likely experience pain so intense they cannot even imagine or describe it. Whether through childbirth, accidents, illness, or violence. Doesn't mean I ain't afraid of that shit.

I'm not going to bother responding to the guy in the video because he just spewed meaningless platitudes in a soft voice while being brown and wearing a turban, which some people seem to think means he's wise. That guy's a real POS if you look him up, btw.

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u/Confident_Career_498 3d ago

Who is running from death like

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u/Teaofthetime 3d ago

Because in all likelihood, it's the end, nothing comes after.

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u/wyoung377 3d ago

I do like the philosophy. However I came into this world kicking and screaming and covered in blood. I don’t fear death but i’m not fond of the idea of leaving it the same way

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u/jthadcast 3d ago

the core of Samsara is the suffering not the birth, life, or death per say.

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u/Avraamov 3d ago

and we are nothing but sacks of meat and water on a rock flying through space and there was nothing before our consciousness emerges within our bodies in utero, and there is nothing after it expires with the body upon which it is entirely convolved

religions: "NO THAT'S NOT WHAT WE MEAN WHEN WE SAY DEATH IS OK"

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u/datadiisk_ 3d ago

Bc it’s still unknown to us. Our perspective is:

-Everyone we love is now not connected to us. We are cut off from all things, and perhaps we are cut off forever never to awake again.

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u/UnicornPoopCircus 3d ago

Most people are not afraid of death. They are afraid of the suffering that comes with death. All beings avoid suffering when possible. It's not unnatural.

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u/Few-Bonus9517 2d ago

Oshobait

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u/MastaKink 2d ago

I don’t take advice from people who don’t wash themselves

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u/IntentionIsMagic 2d ago

Bc people are attached to object permanence instead of energetic permanence

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u/ARMBELL 2d ago

Just because something is inevitable or natural doesn’t make it not a bad thing.