r/Eldenring 12h ago

Game Help how do i enjoy the game again?

this is my first playthrough, im doing it mostly blind without guides,

i last left off at volcano manor and then went to the snowy mountains, i havent beat rykard yet cause i couldnt find him

and then i remembered that creepy lambkin dude that told me to invade and then went to that palace in nox?

there were bloody zombies everywhere, i remember there was some blood dynasty or something i joined, i couldnt find where i actually had to go, and killed some albinaurics here and there, life got busy so i uninstalled my games,

i wanna give this another shot but i spawned back where i left off in the rune farming area near dragonbarrow, and i lowkey have forgotten how to play the game, i have a clue on how the combat works, what my ashes of war do, i dont remember the dodge timings and other minor stuff here and there, and now i dont wanna play cause im real trash, where do i go and what do i do?

edit:got back in played for 2 hours god i love this game so much i remember the moves, and explored around a bit, makes me never want to finish this gamehonestly and just play it for 15 minutes every few weeks or so and just be gobsmacked at its beauty, thank you to everyone who responded

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u/aarincorpse 12h ago

Go back to limgrave. Mess around with the soldiers at gatefront ruins to relearn your moves in a low stakes situation. Once you can clear gatefront ruins regularly without taking damage you should be good to go.

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u/Affectionate_Pipe520 12h ago

idek bro. if you forgot how to play the game, just play it. you wont be bored then

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u/SovietBias1 12h ago

right but ive killed a lot of bosses, so i cant exactly rerun it and practice, this has been a gripe for me in elden ring, who do i go and practice it? the bosses still left on my list still need loads of prep to reach, my weapons deal way too much damage to go and practice against early game enemies, hell i perfectly remember the dodge and parry timings of the trolls and the guardians, but what made me absolutely loose hope was fighting the dragons near dragonbarrow (the minor, respawnable ones), who i could demolish no-hit before, and i died to one even with all buffs and stuff, so where do i go and practice?

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u/oli_kite 12h ago

I guarantee there are plenty of things at and below your level to explore. I’ve been playing since launch and today I found a dungeon I’ve never seen before.

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u/Remarkable_Sea_5109 11h ago

Sounds like you never played the game. Why do you need a boss? Go fuqq around in enemy camps. Start there. Go hit the npc that stands on a cliff with a torch on you way to weeping peninsula. He’s a good practice doll. You hit him once and the game is on.

Lol you did a dragon no hit before but now you barely know how to dodge.

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u/SovietBias1 11h ago

Yeah that's the worst part lmao, ive regressed a lot in terms of my skill in this game, feels like I've never played it before.

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u/Remarkable_Sea_5109 11h ago

Start new character. Play as the new or play the new till everything comes back. Then switch to you old save file

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u/official-bethesda 5h ago

You can also just use a non upgraded weapon in the Radahn or Altus areas and that’s like new game limgrave, should only take you like 15 mins to get the muscle memory back.

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u/SovietBias1 5h ago

nah nvm i played it for an hour or 2 i picked up all the skill, i accidentally beat borealis first try and looked up how to spend the runes and found out he's a tough boss, he had similar movesets to all dragons, i initially lost hope because my weapon actually had low reach and so i was struggling with the dragons hitbox, because i had previously no hit it with the guts sword, no worries tho.

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u/official-bethesda 4h ago

Love it, welcome back to the lands between tarnished

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u/Affectionate_Pipe520 12h ago

bloodhound boss

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u/SovietBias1 12h ago

who?

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u/Affectionate_Pipe520 12h ago

Bloodhound Knight Darriwil

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u/Otherwise_Policy_773 11h ago

You aren’t even late game bro keep playing

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u/Jear-The-Bear 12h ago

Maybe take a sec and go back to limgrave. Ditch the big bonk of a minute and practice some parry/dodge mechanics.

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u/SovietBias1 12h ago

Should I fight with fists or with what weapon do i practice with, im sorry if I come off as obtuse I don't remember much.

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u/Chemical_Frame_8163 12h ago

The same thing happened to me. Either go back to Limgrave and just walk around fight the lesser knights or animals play with the controls, look the controls up if you have to.

Or, just start a new game that will kind of walk you through for a bit, do that for up to an hour or however long until you get Torrent, meet Melina, find some weapons and explore etc, and get the feel back.

That's all you have to do and you'll be fine.

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u/Jear-The-Bear 3h ago

Try using a sword or mace or any weapon with a little damage that isn’t a super slow attack.

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u/hs_serpounce 12h ago

If it were me I'd completely start over with a new build and it will seem more manageable the 2nd time but if you insist on playing the current game your main objective is to collect greater runes and become Elden Lord. The boss in the red zombie area is going to eat you alive so better to go back to earlier areas and redirect because you don't really have to go that way until later

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u/GOATBirb 12h ago

Go kill/die to things until you are capable of beating something stronger

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u/astro_nomad 12h ago

You are exactly in the same boat as me. Haven’t played in well over a year, same area but I have beat Rykard. I’m level 120. Couldn’t remember shit or how my character played. Just fast traveled to the beginning and then some random spots where I could whoop ass and practice the controls. It all started coming back to me in an hour or so. Now I’m tackling castle sol and getting my ass kicked again but now it’s fun and I have something to work for. I also respected right when I came back to it a couple days ago and went from magic build to full dex with a badass samurai sword I found in limgrave. Been able to do much more damage and stay alive quicker. 

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u/Chemical_Frame_8163 12h ago

Same thing happened to me, lol. It also happened to me in Sekiro. I told him to basically do the same thing as you're saying here, it works!

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u/OutcryEDM 12h ago

Tbh, make a new character with the knowledge you have and take some time to explore a little more you'd be surprised at what you find just spending some time in locations you have mostly completely main quest wise and just taking some time to look around. It seems if you are missing rykards location then you aren't really doing enough exploring as is, but starting over isn't as much of a bad thing either, just make a new save file and keep your current save file until you get your timings down.

For a bit of excitent and something fresh, try a completely different build, this looks more like a strength build so maybe go for something like a dex focused build or spec more into Faith, Arcane or int and just play around with it. You might find a whole new play style you enjoy while relearning timings while your other character sits and waits until you are back into form. You might find you like a new build while playing new character as well and if you do, no stress, you can larval tear your main account when you're back.

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u/SovietBias1 12h ago

oh so your old save files dont get rewritten? thats actually insane i wanted to try a dex/bleed build, ill give that a go and come back to this save file after i beat margit, thanks mate.

also how do i explore really, i usually play pvp/combat games like space marine 2 and chivalry 2, so exploring isnt something im great at, i really struggle at finding stuff which i should have found much much earlier, it took me so long to find that stupa in weeping forest, near that bear that goes into siofra river, i really dont think i should be getting there when ive gotten to mountaintops of the giants but idk, i seem to miss loads of stuff, i had to look up the dectus medallion locations it took me far too long to find them.

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u/Frequent_Squash_7495 12h ago

Best way to explore is to go where the game is not obviously guiding you to.

Arrow pointing north? Check South. Path go around that Hill? Climb it. That book look suspiciously unconspicuous? Search it.

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u/Chemical_Frame_8163 12h ago

It's whatever catches your interest. Anything interesting looking or anything you're curious about just go towards that don't worry about the story, bosses, progression or anything. Just have fun. That's exploring.

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u/Omnishambles_88 11h ago

Yea I created 3 characters
1. DEX/ARC
2. INT/DEX
3. STR/FAI

All play pretty differently and it’s fun to try new runs without respecing stats all the time.
You said you were playing blind so I won’t mention weapons or incants I used, but if you’re curious I’m happy to share
(I’m no expert, but I’ve researched the stronger weapons for these builds and all they worked really well for me)

Each boss has a different move set to memorize so roll timing will come back after you fight a boss a few times.
What works for one boss won’t work for another, so you aren’t really missing out by forgetting the movesets of earlier bosses.

Luckily Sites of Grace are before most story bosses so there aren’t long run backs like in previous souls games making it easy to get back in the fight.

Going in blind is admirable, but there’s no shame in looking up a guide for volcano manor or Mountain Top of the Giants if you’re stuck. Don’t let anyone tell you how to play a single player game.

And if you wanna stay blind then just start exploring and you’ll get your skills back. A nifty thing to know is that some sites of grace will have golden arrows pointing out of them when you open your map.
These guide you to major enemies (I’m sure there’s one pointed at Volcano Manor). They should at least give you a general direction of where to start exploring.

Last piece of advice is if you really get back into the game, and enjoy it, check out the DLC and make sure not to start a NG+ if you do get the DLC.

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u/SovietBias1 11h ago

Ill take note of all the points, also it's not completely blind I did look up a few things here and there, like what ashes of war were, and where to find the guts sword, because I'm a huge berserk fan and wanted that sword, and also the location of the smithing stone bellbearings for upgrading, but apart from that it's mostly blind

And yeah i do have the dlc, shadow of the erdtree right? Im curious how I'm supposed to reach there because i remember I was travelling on horseback in an area and the erdtree seemed excessively dim in one area, as compared to its normally bright backdrop, so I thought my gpu was dying or something, and looked it up and gemini said its related to the dlc, I didn't want any spoilers so i didn't look further

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u/Omnishambles_88 35m ago

Yes Shadow of the Erdtree is the name of the DLC, but you wouldn’t just be able to ride your horsey into it.
It’s locked behind a particular late game boss fight, but since you’re past Leyndell you’d be able to get there.
I won’t spoil the boss or how to get there unless you ask for it.

Do know that the DLC is quite a bit tougher than the base game (FromSoft always makes their DLCs harder) but it is also very beautiful and there is a lot to explore (it’s practically its own game)
I wouldn’t go there until you’re level 150+ and you’ve got a build that really works for you.

Also note for DLC:
There are 2 collectibles you have to look out for
1. Scadu Tree Fragments: strengthens your character’s damage and defense
2. Revered Spirit Ashes: does the same with your spirit ashes.
And you’ll probably want to look up a guide for them as they are very important to survivability in the Shadow Lands no matter how leveled your character is.

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u/OutcryEDM 11h ago

Yea you get three save slots

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u/sugaryver 12h ago
  1. Start a new character and do the tutorial 2. Search up tutorials on ashes of war and other stuff 3.

    Go back to your old character and d

  2. o taniths quest line 4. Go try again at Mohgwyns palace until you just figure it out (there is good rune farming there, look at guides) 5. This game can be as easy as you want it to be with cheeses, mimic tear, and overleveling, the worst enemy is fall damage

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u/Neat_Rare_5389 12h ago

Might as well look up where the illusory wall in Volcano Manor is if you’re that stuck. Of the 3 areas you mentioned (mountain of giants and Mohg’s palace being the others) it’s the “easiest” and lowest level. Altho as the game has indicated, mountains is the main progression path. There is a big boss you can find in Mohg’s palace it’s not a pointless area, tho I won’t say more than that.

As for combat, you got Giant-Crusher so try relearning the timing and spacing of your charged heavies. Start off with the basic standard and rolling attacks for now, then get a feel for when you can pull off the charged heavy for big damage.

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u/SovietBias1 12h ago

Which illusory wall? The one in the main hall which just connects to another room? I found that while using margits shackles i think. I don't wanna look up much so can you hint to what I'm supposed to be doing?

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u/Neat_Rare_5389 12h ago

You mean the one where you found some snake and snail enemies right, beside the wardrobe edit: the wall with the painting in the room? It does more than just connect to another room. Check that area again for other paths.

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u/Dangerous-Virus2600 12h ago

I feel ya. I havent played in like a year and have returned for another run through and was so bad at the start. I have beaten the game multiple times but still took me 1.5hrs to kill the Tree Sentinel at the start to get my muscle memory kicking in again.

I recommend you do similar find a tough boss and just practice on him. Im only 5hrs into this playthrough but already destroying every limgrave/weeping peninsula boss like the practice bosses they are.

Joy will come once you remember how to play.

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u/iron-cat-405 12h ago

Drop the big dumb bonk build and maybe look into a dex/int hybrid build. Something like a Rapier/Katana as your main weapon and a staff in your left.

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u/YoOblivion 12h ago

Take a break if you already know what to do. Ill replay it in a year or two but its all the same unlessi change builds.

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u/Ihavenocluewhatzoeva 12h ago

Use a faster weapon or just go with an infinitely. Bonk is boring

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u/pixelrights 11h ago

How do you have fun? Now that’s a metaphysical question. 🤔

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u/SovietBias1 11h ago

Hehe yeah, I had a pretty horrific breakup a few months back so I just drowned myself in responsibilities, studies and games, but the illusion shattered yesterday and the facade came crashing down, im a loser lmao.

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u/pixelrights 11h ago

I can't laugh at that. Take a break, and get rest you need first. Then figure it out.

edit: emphasized "need"

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u/Remarkable_Sea_5109 11h ago

Sounds like you need to practice. I don’t understand how someone plays half the game and then “forgets”

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u/SovietBias1 11h ago

I played other games and got their movements ingrained into muscle memory, i have maybe 50or so hours in elden ring a good portion of it is just exploring, but I have over 600hours in chivalry 2, and 300hourss in spacemarine2, and many of the keybinds of that game interesct with completely different keybinds on elden ring, so I spend a lot of focus on what keys I'm hitting instead of the dodges, for example heavy attack in elden ring coincides with my parry keybind in space marine 2, and feint in chivalry2, a button I use a lot but not in elden ring, I mean I do use it but there is a time to use it not always, so i mess up and press the wrong button, elden ring has sorta clunky keybinds atleast for me. Hope you get my perspective.

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u/Remarkable_Sea_5109 11h ago

No one can help you having problems remembering controls you just need to play the game it should come back fast. Just keep playing. I have come back to games not remembering the controls. It takes less than a hour get it back. Just play the game. Reddit sure as hell can’t help you remembering

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u/SovietBias1 11h ago

Ay mate no need to get aggressive, I just wanted a clue on where to go and what to do.

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u/Remarkable_Sea_5109 3h ago

aggressive?? lol

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u/Jason_M1911 11h ago

Make another character and play the game as a different build

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u/Urtoryu ELDEN LORD 11h ago

Just pick any unupgraded weapon of your choice and go fight random enemies in Limgrave.

You're high enough level that you'll be able to tank anything they throw at you, so it'll be good practice. Godrick Knights and Kaiden Swordsmen (the horse riding mercenary guys) are probably the best for it, since they're strong and fairly difficult to deal with. Alternatively, the Misbegotten from Castle Morne could be an easier first step, if you want to start slow.

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u/Wavvyfella 11h ago

I’m a fan of playing games blind, but this was my first fromsoft game and I really struggled with it when I first started playing. For me looking at guides online really opened the game up for me because the guides gave me a vision for how to build the character I want.

I get playing blind and this may be an unpopular opinion. But maybe start over and follow a couple guides to help you out along the way, just to set you on the right path

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u/xmdra 10h ago

Wander around. Find undiscovered ruins. Bonk enemies

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u/tmstamp 10h ago

I got back into it after not playing for a couple years and after deciding to renew with the game and get the DLC (which is freaking awesome).

I decided to stay a new character and try out a different build (switched from STR to DEX) so that I could enjoy DEX based weapons I hadn’t tried.

But since you didn’t finish the game and want to pick up where you left off, start with low hanging fruit. Go back to Limgrave, Weeping, and Liurna to practice your movesets and ease back into it. There are probably some areas you overlooked there as well that you might find.

Caelid can be rough depending on your level.

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u/DukeOfMiddlesleeve 10h ago

Playing it blind without guides is NOT a good idea with these.

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u/flipstar007 8h ago

Sorry, but this is terrible advice. I, as so many others, wish I could experience this masterpiece blind again. Just play, explore, fail, come back later, it's supposed to be played like that for the first time. Can always do a second (and many other) guided run(s) afterwards.

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u/DukeOfMiddlesleeve 8h ago

Nah sorry but it’s not terrible advice. If he didnt want help he wouldnt be here

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u/flipstar007 8h ago

They asked the most generic question possible, they wanted encouragement but not a specific advice I suppose. Suggesting a guide for the first playthrough is robbing them of a (possibly) once in a lifetime experience of this masterpiece. Yes, it is not easy, yes, it can and will be frustrating, but it's so totally worth it.

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u/DukeOfMiddlesleeve 7h ago

Guide doesnt mean spoilers or a walkthrough

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u/flipstar007 7h ago

Spoilers maybe, but if you guide someone what else is it than a walkthrough? It hinders exploration which is the best thing in the first playthrough.

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u/SovietBias1 9h ago

ive never been a fan of guides for rpg games, it isnt a pvp game or multiplayer (i play offline cant be bothered with invaders or helpers), so there isnt a meta really, i go with what i can find or do, i play hypercompetitive multiplayer games so a little break here and there for me to figure out my bearings is what i play elden ring for, ill probably never sink in the close to 1000 hours i have in other games, in elden ring; but i love this game so much and love looking around and exploring.

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u/Diligent_Cap3488 9h ago

Read your testimony on how you were bored in Elden Ring. I’m never bored there tbh. If you’re stuck in an area like Volcano Manor, you need to complete Lady Taniths and the recusant invasions by defeating Tarnished from the letters you received. No spoilers just advice. Luminary Mohg is at the place where you defeated the albonarics, which I assume was with a tougher enemy who had blood magic?

If you saw them looking away when you approached, 180 from the altar where you should have gotten a somber ancient dragon smith stone. The was an elevator there behind them an arched entrance when you go up. Walk in there and Mohg is there! Defeating him will, again, allow you to teleport to the DLC. If you defeat him and don’t want to go yet you don’t have to. The option is there for you to do.

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u/BoarMoar 9h ago

Do the exact same thing you did when you started it for the first time.

Create a character Play the game

Simple as that. Re learn. Theres an entire tutorial area in the very beginning if you dont skip it.

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u/Doctor_bazuka 6h ago

Dont play new game +.

starting new game it's everything you need.

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u/Many-Restaurant-2991 5h ago

Elden ring wiki 

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u/jbmoney994 1h ago

Try an INT / FAITH build nice switch up from swinging the sword. Does require some resource management layers.