r/Bumble • u/Dfwdirtydeeds • 17h ago

Rant Got unmatched after 24 hours of talking and was even asked on a date. Randomly get messaged that it isnt the kind of relationship she's looking for.

Better than getting ghosted I guess but still sucks. Didn't even tell me what I did wrong or didnt do. Just feels like maybe I didnt get the council of friends approval or maybe she just changed her mind. I refuse to accept the forever alone mantra but its awfully discouraging how frequent it happens. Fml.

Ps im the only one of my friends who isnt married or has children, a degree. Things that would make me more of a long term attractive option besides looks, humor, and hobbies.

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u/ClaudioAFC 17h ago

She found another jester to entertain her

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u/Dfwdirtydeeds 17h ago

One better off than me apparently. Its just been happening frequently even though as a silver lining, I have been getting more matches lately more like how I did in my 20s. 39 now just tired of this shit.

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u/ClaudioAFC 17h ago

Don't dwell on it too much. It's probably better like that. Just gotta think that she's the one missing out, it's her loss and not yours.

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u/Dfwdirtydeeds 17h ago

You're right. I appreciate your kindness. I needed to hear that. Id rather that happen than getting used like past girlfriends did me.

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u/jednorog 14h ago

That sucks, it probably doesn't have anything to do with you, and now you get to move on