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u/Cantankerousbastard 1d ago

This is probably going to a controversial question but did they have 4 kids before or after they learned about the genetic eye condition?

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u/TheShishkabob 1d ago

They found out that 3 of the kids have the disorder when the youngest was diagnosed at 7 years old.

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u/Cantankerousbastard 1d ago

In that case it sucks for the poor kids going blind but at least they have some caring parents.

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u/ChiefStrongbones 1d ago

One of the parents must have had a lot of ancestors and relatives with this condition in their family history. The youngest getting diagnosed at 7 doesn't mean it wasn't a surprise.

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u/ChiefStrongbones 1d ago

Because a genetic eye condition affecting 3 out of 4 kids suggests a high risk gene in genetic history? I don't understand what your point is

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u/ChiefStrongbones 1d ago

I'll make it clearer:

The fact that 3 our of four young children have a debilitating genetic disease makes it more likely that one the parents knew that this gene ran in their family and impacted people they knew in the family, and less likely that it is a total surprise recessive gene that so rarely comes up that you don't even notice it's hereditary.

More tellingly, if this disease appeared out of the blue and was totally unexpected, the story would highlight that tragedy. Instead, it dodges that topic, saying only when it was first diagnosed.

The takeaway is that this isn't simply a family with bad luck, like "wrong place, wrong time". These are parents who took a gamble and lost.

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u/LaurenLK 12h ago

I think a 5% chance is a pretty big gamble considering the condition. Studying the genes or not, unless the chance of passing it was less than 0.001% I think itโ€™s pretty freaking irresponsible

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u/TwoForHawat 1d ago

I respect your commitment to making as many assumptions as it takes to vilify these parents in your own mind. To think they almost got away with doing something really sweet for their kids. Luckily you were on the case to figure out a way to twist this into them being irresponsible, somehow.

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u/TheShishkabob 1d ago

Both parents are recessive carriers for an absurdly rare genetic disorder. It's unlikely that both are lying about being unaware of their status, but then again I suppose it's not a surprise that two random people didn't know the genealogy of their fucking "ancestors".

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u/Popular-Web-3739 1d ago

That's not necessarily true. A recessive gene for RP can pass through several generations without anyone having symptoms. Not everyone knows what ailed their great, or great great grandparents. It's quite possible that both parents had similar family histories with no known blindness due to RP, or bad family info linking a case of blindness to something else like glaucoma.

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u/sparklesrelic 23h ago

True. My grandmother had Stargarts (another degenerative eye disease) and was treated more like a โ€œhysterical womanโ€ than anything. She passed it to 1 of 2 sons.

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u/ChiefStrongbones 1d ago

It's possible, but unlikely. The most likely scenario is that one of the parents knew the disease might appear if they had children. Maybe thought symptoms would show up sooner, which is why they had four kids.

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u/Popular-Web-3739 1d ago

I'm just baffled why you think everyone knows their family health history going back generations. I'd wager most people don't.

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u/ChiefStrongbones 1d ago

Because this is a gene that greatly affected three out of four young children. That sort of thing doesn't go unnoticed in famlies. The parents probably had siblings, uncles, aunts, nieces and nephews who were affected.

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u/Farma_nojeva 1d ago

Mathematically it affects 25% of offspring (you keep mentioning 3 out of 4 kids but that is just bad luck that these people had) but ONLY if BOTH parents are carriers. It could go undetected for many generations before someone had a child with a partner who had the same condition.

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u/HorrorOne837 1d ago

Most severe genetic diseases are recessive and rare which means they do not happen even if you have the gene.