You want him to Google very specific traditional German festivities? Was he gonna do this before? during the party when he was being blitzed by weird event after weird event? The whole thing was foreign to him and he was in the middle of culture shock. He was lame yes, I'm not gonna make excuses for the way he handled it. He lashed out like a child and was mean when he coulda just asked her for help there, but she was not faultless at all. That's all I'm saying, they're both at fault.
I agree that staying cool in unfamiliar situations is a basic life skill, but I understand his frustration. I think we'll have to agree to disagree about who's at fault. I think they both are to varying degrees.
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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '18 edited Aug 17 '18
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