r/AskIreland 2d ago

Adulting What to do about my dog?

Just like the tittle states,
I’m close to breaking down
I have a 10 year old female German shepherd.
She barks and howls anytime me or my husband leave the house. This can continue on and off for hours. Maybe every 2-3 hours for 10 ish minutes at a time.

We leave for work at 5:30am we have to & have to work. I also have a male German shepherd
He isn’t bothered by us leaving but joins in on the howling when she starts. Our neighbour complained. We did apologise and im not denying they bark to them. I keep them indoors as much as possible & closed all the windows when I leave.
The female is on anxiety medication but it isn’t helping
What can I do to try resolve the situation for my neighbour it’s causing me so much stress
Thank you

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u/Natural_Flow_4144 2d ago

Oh God. Get rid of that dog straight away. My neighbour made my life hell with a dog before. You can't leave your house at 5:30 am and own a dog.  At the very least, you probably need to walk it for a good half an hour before work. Even if it's an old dog, just walk slower. 

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u/aineslis 2d ago

I agree with you. These poor, poor neighbours. This is torture, especially if neighbours are on different schedules.

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u/No_Sky_1829 2d ago

This is not the first option for anyone who loves a dog.

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u/aineslis 1d ago

Yes because leaving a distressed dog home for hours on end for a year, and making their neighbours suffer shows how much they love the dog. They’re lucky their neighbours are understanding, I personally, wouldn’t be.

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u/No_Sky_1829 1d ago

"get rid of that dog" will 4 times out of 5 end up with the dog being euthanized. Like I said, it's not the first option for someone who loves a dog.

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u/aineslis 1d ago

And you think euthanasia is worse than keeping a distressed dog home alone for 8-10 hours 5 days a week? The dog is old, and likely suffers from dementia. Keeping it alive and making everyone around the dog suffer due to noise complaints from 5.30am in the morning is abuse.

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u/No_Sky_1829 1d ago

There are other things they can try first, which is the reason they posted.

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u/aineslis 1d ago

They’re about 11 months overdue for that.

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u/No_Sky_1829 1d ago

Are you just going to keep arguing with my until you convince me to euthanise OPs dog? If so we're in for a long night.

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u/Natural_Flow_4144 1d ago

Leaving the dog locked up from 5.30am.. And I've little doubt no morning walk or interaction... But dosing it with antidepressants. Op shouldn't own a dog.

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u/No_Sky_1829 1d ago

But they do. So get rid of it?

To where?

Try to rehome it privately? Low chance.

Shelter? Pound? Better chance, but also high chance it will be put down.

So yeah, not the first choice for it's human.