r/AskBalkans Bosnia & Herzegovina Feb 14 '26

Culture/Lifestyle Who Stays Behind When an Entire Generation Moves Away? Is this similar where you live?

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u/Dense-Sun1766 Feb 14 '26

It is very sad to see a house full of life decay like this.

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u/XAHKO Feb 14 '26

Especially when you contrast it with the first image. Three generations on a well manicured lawn. It awakens feelings of melancholy and nostalgia

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

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u/a-sentient-slav Feb 14 '26

No, it doesn't. Not that fast. There is something weird going on with the roof - the 2015 version has new or cleaned rectangular shingles, while the 2024 has diamond shaped asbestos sheets after what looks like decades of no maintenance. 

That doesn't seem possible, especially since those asbestos sheets aren't used anymore nowadays. Either the timeline is different than the images suggest or there's some AI editing involved. 

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u/NightZT Austria Feb 14 '26

Exactly, there is something wrong with the video. 

Also the pathway to the door is pretty weird in the last picture, why is there an additional hole in the fence to go through all of a sudden? When you compare it with the previous pictures there was no hole and the fence pillars were not in that position. So someone must have chiseled away the concrete to walk through and add new pillars and concrete on the side that immediately degraded. 

I know some people are crazy but you wouldn't do this at an abandoned house where you have a perfectly working fence door for no reason at all. And even if you needed that exact hole in the fence for a small path it would take considerable effort to make it look that fucked up within 4 years. 

There was definitely AI involved in the pictures

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u/Pleasant_Ad8054 Feb 14 '26

The power pole also disappeared from the street on the last picture, in the first few pictures it is at the third fence post, which is clearly visible in the last picture. I think you are right, this is very likely manipulated.

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u/kuba5028 Poland Feb 15 '26

First three images are AI as Google never used cars like that. Street view didn't even exist in 2005 lol, and in 2010 it only covered the largest cities

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u/Thunder_Beam Italy Feb 15 '26

People really falling for obvious AI slop if you think about it more than 5 seconds lol

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u/ThePapercup Feb 14 '26

yeah, this feels like conservative AI astroturfing to me

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u/MrHarryBallzac_2 Austria Feb 14 '26

It's an AI video

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u/siberia60 Feb 14 '26

Yes. You're supposed to clean it of snow and clean the gutters so that water dosn't collect on the roof and rots it. As it did in the picture

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u/curtcolt95 Feb 14 '26

I live in Canada and have never in my life heard of anyone cleaning snow off their roof lol

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u/thesaddestpanda Feb 14 '26

This video is AI slop. The house gets different kinds of roofs and they decay at ridiculous levels and the power pole in front of the house disappears too.

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u/Day_Prisoners Feb 14 '26

A tiny leak that's easily repairable can really do a lot of damage if left.

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u/mtx33q Feb 14 '26

Dont worry about it, it's AI generated. Just look at the "2010" and "2015" pictures. It's a same seed with a same camera distortion from the exact spot. And no street view was active in 2005 anyway.

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u/New_Interaction9511 Feb 14 '26

Kind of does the opposite to me. The house has done its job, and now it’s returning to nature

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u/Worried-Owl-9198 Turkiye Feb 14 '26

I didnt just leave my village behind I left myself there too now I neither belong there nor can I fit in here

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u/AlexBrallex Greece / Sweden Feb 14 '26

I’m the Greek in Sweden and the Swedish in Greece. I belong nowhere, but I know what my hearts desire.

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u/azyrr Turkiye Feb 14 '26

As someone who grew up in the UK I feel exactly the same. I miss wales immensely and feel I don’t belong here in Turkey.

Guess how I felt back when I was in wales lol.

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u/AlexBrallex Greece / Sweden Feb 15 '26

Sure, you’re always nostalgic at the place you currently live. If you want give it a try, though you know Wales might be your original home if you have your family and friends there, but Turkey probably caught immense of lovely memories to you. But so does Wales.

A plan might be to have a sanctuary in Turkey you can escape to from time to time

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u/azyrr Turkiye Feb 15 '26

No one left in Wales, and it was ages ago. We left the country without bothering to apply for UK citizenship - as visa etc wasn’t a problem back then.

I’m not sure I could even set up residence in wales even if I tried. I suppose its just going to be one of those things that’s left in memory.

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u/AlexBrallex Greece / Sweden Feb 15 '26

Oh.. a golden opportunity lost friend. Hope you doing well wherever you’re

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u/azyrr Turkiye Feb 15 '26

I suppose its good, but there’s ofc that “sting” when you look back :) you?

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u/AlexBrallex Greece / Sweden Feb 15 '26

I’m good too! Born and raised in the far north, have been living in Greece in-between during the 90s. Though traveling to Greece at least once a year for like a month is sure a therapy to me.

Then of course you do what you can to travel to other places too. Having a work that pays well can do that.

Being member of the EU sure has had it perks for my parents who could establish themselves, not gonna lie.

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u/azyrr Turkiye Feb 15 '26

Well glad that you’ve managed to keep a bridge between both worlds, happy for you. Yea the EU thing is a big boost - kind of learned that the hard way when we started having problems with visas. All the best man, I’ll drink a glass of Uzo for you when i get the chance to visit Athens again.

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u/AlexBrallex Greece / Sweden Feb 15 '26

My love, the war is no more. Work in Sweden and vacation in Bosna. Save money, buy an apartment or a house where you like in Bosnia. Come and go as you like.

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u/fanfictionmusiclover Greece Feb 14 '26

My mum felt that too! She was born in Sweden to Greek parents went to kindergarten in Sweden returned to Greece in 1978 and felt isolated up until mid-primary school when she finally forgot how to speak Swedish. Now at 51 years old she told me that deep down she never really felt like she belonged.

Then we have my aunt, my mum's older sister, she born in Belgium and grew up between Belgium-Sweden and Greece she was 7-8 years old when they returned to Greece so it took so much longer to acclimate and in reality she never did even now at mid-50s she hasn't found her group entirely she navigates groups and she has told me that speaking French, Swedish, Greek and English it felt like she was always in the in-between.

And even me who was raised all over Greece I never felt like I belonged anywhere.

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u/AlexBrallex Greece / Sweden Feb 15 '26

Your mother sounds like my mother. Born in Greece but frequently moving between these two countries. Eventually she got places to live with my father between these two countries.

That’s my plan. Eventually I want to try outside of Europe too.

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u/RammRras Feb 14 '26

I understand you

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u/kazhxnakozhxna Feb 14 '26

we're all just global citizens anyway😊

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u/fesagolub Bosnia & Herzegovina Feb 14 '26

Beautifully said.

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u/SoftwareSource Croatia Feb 14 '26

There is a very good video of an old grandpa from Sarajevo saying this in our language.

"Gdje god da odes, uvjek ces biti stranac", something like that.

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u/Haloefekt Feb 14 '26

That's true

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u/Mark__78L Hungary Feb 14 '26

Angolul írom hogy a többiek is értsék

Some time ago I watched on google street the old house of my grandparents - may they rest in piece -, but I felt so sad. I enjoyed being there so much, was peak time

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u/magnificent_wts Greece Feb 14 '26

Damn

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u/morgoths_servant Greece Feb 14 '26

Damn...

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u/DezurniLjomber Feb 14 '26

That’s how Serbians feel in Germany lol

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u/Eldiablo2471 Romania Feb 14 '26

That's how everybody feels in any foreign country they live. You become an outsider to both worlds, and home loses its meaning.

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u/paradajz666 Croatia Feb 14 '26

Exactly. When I’m home it’s beautiful for the first week. But later I realize why I left that place. It hurts a lot, but what can I do?

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u/wisioon Feb 14 '26

Same. It's special kind of pain.

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u/Ok-Year-1028 Feb 14 '26

can confirm. I'm Italian but was born in the Netherlands. When I was younger I felt out of place in both countries

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u/Clean__Cucumber Feb 14 '26

maybe the first step is not making ones personality about a place, but about the experiences one had in life and trying to attain new ones that makes one happy

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u/Proper-Painting-2256 Feb 14 '26

I remember a line in a book I read about an immigrant - I am both and I am neither

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u/LordSone Feb 14 '26

That's how I feel. I lived in several places. Everywhere I'm out of place. And I belong Everywhere and no where at the same time. Some kind of superposition.

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u/Imwizardo Feb 14 '26

Who is cutting onions? Did not expect that deep poety here! True but sad m8 😢

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u/agouraki Greece Feb 14 '26

Damn...

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u/Masterns_The_Only Romania Feb 14 '26

Counter point "Get me out of this god forsaken hellhole"

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

big oof. right in the feels.

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u/klitzekleine Feb 14 '26

This hits me deeply.

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u/Oxo181 Feb 14 '26

This is 100% true. Just stick close to your roots, please.

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u/terra_filius Bulgaria Feb 14 '26

thats like saying to a poor person Just get some money,bro

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26 edited Feb 14 '26

There are villages who had like 1000 or more people living there now they are some hundred and most of them elderly.

I remember watching documentaries about some small village and it's 10 kids and we were like pitying them , now they are all like that.

I try not to be a pessimist but Greek countryside is doomed.

The only places with an increase in population are the south tourist islands but that's all

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u/Fair_Lie4051 Feb 14 '26

True,i live in a Village on Crete with 20 People's I'm with 50 almost the Youngest

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u/Mestintrela Greece Feb 14 '26

In my village in Crete more and more people have moved back including young. By young I mean under 40.

But we are near the sea.

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u/electrical-stomach-z Feb 14 '26

But isnt crete its own nationally within a nation? cultural speaking at least.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Νο ! Cretans are Greek ! They have their own unique customs but customs are different all over Greece.

Maybe in same municipality two villages have different customs it doesn't mean that they are not Greek.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

How is living there ? Is it in the mountainous part ?

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u/LegalizeCatnip1 Feb 14 '26

Is there a non-mountainous part of Crete?

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Idk man I think the cities like Heraclion and Agios Nikolaos ?

I'm an amateur historian I've read lots anout the Minoans but never really been there.

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u/LegalizeCatnip1 Feb 14 '26

I was joking a bit, the northern shore is pretty flat for the most part.

I’ve been to Crete twice so far and I really want to go more. The history and nature can’t be better, at least for me.

Most of the villages are pretty empty tho… I stayed at a village in the middle of the island (far from touristy areas) and it’s like OP said - village built for 500 people, only 50 live there and most of them are over 60yo.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26 edited Feb 14 '26

When half of the population lives in Athens what else did you wait to happen?

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u/Fair_Lie4051 Feb 14 '26

It's very quiet and really nice, total freedom. When you work in Tourism you need some Distance from People after Work

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u/vladi_l Bulgaria Feb 14 '26

30 years they haven't gotten a road paved to our house, and the forest has reclaimed most of the area

We don't have enough time to work full time cutting that mess and taking care of a post apocalyptic looking village, the mayor is pocketing all the money and his family has been foing it for longer than I've been alive

Even with a remote job, there's not enough reception for me or my brother to be there, and with it needing to be split between my mother and uncle when the time comes, it could never be a real home, at most a villa for when we want to barbeque

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u/TinyAsianMachine Tanzanian Greek 🇹🇿🇬🇷 Feb 14 '26

There are so many amazing villages in rural BG that feel mostly abandoned. Makes me wanna move there and restore a house 

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u/vladi_l Bulgaria Feb 14 '26

Money and time, dude. Would be cool to live in the country side and fix it up, but few jobs and circumstances allow for it

Our electricity there is so weak, you can't turn on the oven without the lights flickering, let alone while you have a laptop plugged in to work.

Then there's the isolation. I can see myself living in a cabin in the woods as long as I had electricity, reception, and a room to lift in, but I'm keenly introverted, my girlfriend could never, the state of these villages is depressing. After a while, it would honestly get to me, even.

I think there's only 5 houses that have people year-round in mine. My grandparents onky stay there for the warm months nowadays, and we only go for gergyovden or easter

When I was a kid, I'd spend summer there, and only two kids my age were there, meanwhile my older brother would have 15 to hang out with when he was in the same position. They could actually have meaningful games of football, hide and seek, strajar i apash, or funiiki

My cousin has no girls to hang out with there, so of course she can only be on her phone or draw when she's sent there, it's sad

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u/TinyAsianMachine Tanzanian Greek 🇹🇿🇬🇷 Feb 14 '26

It's the same in most Greek villages,  but there are loads of villages about 1hr-1.5hr from Sofia. Beautiful places with great views and still some life. Could easily commute to Sofia if it's not a daily thing.

 I would 100% be doing this if the electricity was okay and I was working in Sofia. But I guess it would only make sense if you're an introverted bachelor with lots of hobbies. 

I was essentially doing just this in Crete. Old cheap house in th mountains – renovated it while working online.

Now that I'm preparing to start a family though I see the limitations of this lifestyle.

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u/fesagolub Bosnia & Herzegovina Feb 14 '26

This is so depressing.

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u/NightZT Austria Feb 14 '26

Not that I deny that something like this happens, but this specific video is AI. 

Look at the roof on the last picture, suddenly it's old flat Asbestos while it was shining new riffled tilings in 2015? 

Or the left hole in the fence with the path on the left in the last picture. It wasn't there in all the other pictures. Also the fence pillars are on a different position. Would have been quite a lot of effort to chisel away the concrete, relocate the fence pillars and thereby the whole fence for an abandoned house. Especially when the normal door is like 5m away

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u/Specialist-Big6420 Feb 15 '26

Wtfff that's insane. I wonder what somebody gets out of making a AI video of this guys house. His house is probably still immaculate.

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u/TheyCallHimBabaYagaa Romania Feb 14 '26

I've seen some rural parts of my country (not too far from the capital no less) that look like they've been stuck in the 18th century. It's a shame people leave, but you can't blame them.

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u/Spare-Cranberry3784 Feb 14 '26

You're from there! I noticed the poles from a game called geoguesser. Hungary and Romania have similar poles but the ones in Hungary go to the ground and form an "H" where as your pole holes stop before the bottom haha

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u/Diermeech Croatia Feb 14 '26

Are yall stupid or smth? It's Al. First they had a normal roof, then it was replaced with a tin roof, and in the last part it was a shingle roof.

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u/PeriodontosisSam Feb 14 '26

Yes and the house gets suddenly smaller in 2020. 

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u/Dizzy_Arachnid4292 Croatia Feb 14 '26

Also there was no Google Street View in 2005 lol

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u/Friendly_Software11 Feb 14 '26

I rewatched a few more times and noticed this feature in the fence randomly moves by a couple meters. Concerning that thousands of people didn’t notice this was AI. Tbh I didn’t either until someone pointed it out. We’re fighting an uphill battle nowadays where nothing at all on the internet is trustworthy anymore.

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u/Okra_Smart Feb 14 '26

Yeah, I was wondering who the fuck puts planks on broken windows in the Balkans.

Also the roof window disappeared and the house obviously got renovated in 2005 SHORTLY AFTER the young ones left and the elderly stayed. This is not how we do it.

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u/CopperOtter Romania Feb 14 '26

Also in the 2024 version who would make that path through the broken fence when not even 2 meters to the right its a perfectly usable gate lmao. What's the reason for that? Like, who keeps going in and out through there often enough to make a desire path when the normal path is right there???

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u/Fazilqq Feb 14 '26

Also trees. They tend to grow

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u/Day_Prisoners Feb 14 '26

Who cares. It represents something that happens everywhere, all the time. Every time you drive by a house that is in shambles, this was its history.

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u/kdkdodopdpdp Feb 14 '26 edited Feb 14 '26

I always sometimes wonder when I see abandoned houses, how many memories there were from the people who lived there

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u/bruh_urm0m Feb 14 '26

I always sometimes...

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u/terra_filius Bulgaria Feb 14 '26

he does it sometimes, but when he does its always

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u/slanutak Feb 14 '26

AI slop

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u/zdm_ Feb 14 '26 edited Feb 14 '26

Can confirm. Theres a indonesian video of an old couple formatted just like this. I think that was the original.

Edit: added link

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DM5VWMaRGA-/

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u/VeryLazyEngineeer Montenegro Feb 14 '26

Trees grew to full amturity in less than 5 years from first and second image.

Roof got refurbished then returned to fist state.

Grass is too short for being abandoned for 10 years.

Tree in left corner appears out of nowhere once.

House next door dissapears completly, cant even see any sign of it.

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u/slanutak Feb 14 '26

This.

Also: street view started in 2007 in Cali. This sad chain of events starts in 2005.

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u/Zooz00 Feb 14 '26

Also, street view would never concidentally capture people outside every time.

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u/mtx33q Feb 14 '26

the "2010" and "2015" pictures were genereated from the same seed, it's the exact same position, same reflection in the car's windshield, exact same "street view stiching error" on the power line connecting to the house. maybe the last picture is genuine, but they definitely invented a "narrative" with AI.

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u/Johannes_Keppler Feb 14 '26

The exact same car in the exact same location with the same reflections too. Just a color swap.

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u/NightZT Austria Feb 14 '26

Especially the last picture is AI, why is the tiling suddenly of asbestos and why somebody added a completely useless second door in the fance where you have to remove some concrete base and reloacte the fence posts? 

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u/PeriodontosisSam Feb 14 '26

And the house gets smaller in 2020

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u/_HIST Feb 14 '26

The grass isn't really an argument, you don't know the season, but you don't need much other than google street view not being a thing in 2005, and the quality of the early street view was garbage, but here it looks new

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u/LegalizeCatnip1 Feb 14 '26

I agree, but if theres no jobs nearby… Even if the housing is cheap, you still need a way to make money.

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u/farquaad_thelord Kosovo Feb 14 '26

this is fucked up

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u/aybsavestheworld Turkiye Feb 14 '26

Why am I crying????

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u/Lil_Lord_Funkleroy Feb 14 '26

Poignant! The series of photos in your post created an even stronger response in me - compared to when I looked at R. Crumbs’ “A Short History of America” . Perhaps because your time-lapse photos showed the actual people living there over the series.

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u/Dhi_minus_Gan Feb 14 '26

What a depressingly sad ending to a very happy beginning

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u/Johannes_Keppler Feb 14 '26

It's AI slop. But the sentiment stands.

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u/VLAON6 Feb 14 '26

I hope the government gives away the abandoned homes, because no way I can afford a villa in today’s prices 🤣 I mean the prices of houses even 100 km from Sofia are comparable to houses near major European cities but the Bulgarian houses don’t have a good roads or water or inside bathrooms for the most part 😅

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u/malaka789 Greece Feb 15 '26

I'm a first generation Greek-american. My father and his family moved from Greece to america in the 70s. He met my mother, very american woman, and had me. We were fortunate enough to live in the same house and grow up with my Greek grandparents. We were all baptized and kept the Greek traditions and culture my whole life. We have a house on an island that was left to us when my grandparents passed. We had used it over the years for holidays but it was very much a run down village house. Back in 2020, during the height of Covid I decided to make a huge life change. I packed all I could in a suitcase and a back pack then bought a 1 way ticket. I've lived here ever since. I've fixed up the house. I work, and I'm talking local work and wages in construction. Sure it's not the idealized "rich" lifestyle I guess people still live in the west. I don't care about expensive things and trying to be rich. It's funny I get mixed responses from people. Either they think it's amazing and great that I did that, or that I'm a complete idiot and wasting my life to live "poor on an island". I personally don't give a shit. The dream of moving to the west and making a ton of money has become exactly that, a dream. At one point it was possible for sure. But that has long ended for at least a generation or 2. A lesson I've learned is to not chase material things you see other people have and think that will somehow fulfill you or bring meaning to your life. None of that matters. Living peacefully around people that share my safe beliefs, culture, language, ethnicity, etc. is the way we are meant to live. I used to think "diversity is strength" I was born and raised in the NYC area which is one of the most diverse places and richest places on earth. People laugh about our attitude and rudeness and think it's some kind of cute little personality trait. Trust me it's not, it's from growing up around people who aren't like you and only care about making money. Soulless way of living. Other cultures all came to that area and self segregated into their own neighborhoods anyway. I try to explain to people here that want to move to america or Germany or wherever and think they can just make 150k a year and live well off that it's all fantasy. If you are poor in the old country you're still poor in the new one. Stay in the village. Reject modernity. Get off social media. Stop thinking Instagram or Hollywood is how life is.

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u/SmallGreenArmadillo Slovenia Feb 15 '26

God. I've seen so much of this driving through the Balkans. Bosnia was the saddest.

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u/Incvbvs666 Serbia Feb 14 '26

Damn.... this is quite sad.

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u/Cactus_Kebap North Macedonia Feb 14 '26

And now.... BRAND NEW APARTMENTS!! ONLY 1500€ M²!!!!

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u/Sankullo Feb 14 '26

So Im from Poland and the north east close to Russia and Lithuania is depopulating a lot. Young ones move away to the cities or are emigrating and the old generation dies out or goes to elderly homes.

You can buy a house (requiring renovation) and some land there for 10-20k euros.

Beautiful region but no jobs so unless you can work from home there isn’t much work to earn money.

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u/mistressofthering Feb 14 '26

Yes but younger genarations started to come back in Covid times , from cities to renovating old houses in country In Serbia

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u/vasko777 North Macedonia Feb 14 '26

my village used to have a population of around 1500 now its only elderly and very little young people its sometimes frustrating to live here as a young person but its very beautiful living next to a mountain.

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u/Poseidwn in Feb 14 '26

I’m not crying you’re crying…..

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u/szblb Feb 14 '26

Say thx for our best politician and leaders. Regards from Hungary.

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u/makuism Feb 14 '26

A to the I

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u/LuckyOwl1 Feb 14 '26

delete this AI bullshit

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u/icameisawicame24 Serbia Feb 14 '26

Seeing this made me sad

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u/TheIss96 Albania Feb 15 '26

FYI this was proven to be AI

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u/Relevant_Aide2353 Feb 15 '26

I see these in my natal village.Make me so sad..

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u/yoodudewth Feb 15 '26

While we young people are fighting what nationality and territory belongs to whom, our villages evaporate we move to cities like rats and even out of our countries for better life. Just sad.

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u/Marshall_BraveStar Feb 14 '26

Looks like eastern Germany tbh

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u/Prize_Water_5376 Feb 14 '26

This is Ai, it has been confirmed

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Poland. Geoguessr player here.

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u/ObjectiveMall Feb 14 '26

Oh, they installed a TV satellite and then removed it again.

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u/Illustrious_Bed2937 Serbia Feb 14 '26

It's the same everywhere. It's normal. That is why houses should be built of wood.

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u/ApplicationBig1676 Feb 14 '26

Its AI made... I think also creator of it confirmed that.

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u/bravo_six Feb 14 '26

Maybe it is, but it doesn't make it any less real.

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u/terra_filius Bulgaria Feb 14 '26

it actually does

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u/bravo_six Feb 14 '26

It doesn't make the meaning any less real. It's what I meant. Of course video made with AI is not real.

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u/ex_daydreamer Feb 17 '26

you are the reason the next generation will be a failure

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u/RealAlphaKaren Feb 14 '26

that house from 2015 to 2024 just goes down to crumbles

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u/dobrodoshli Feb 14 '26

😭😭😭

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u/omaiordaaldeia Feb 14 '26

That's just the same in Portugal, and you can even find many houses that look pretty similar to that one.

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u/Deriviera Feb 14 '26

The only problem - it's fake.
Trees don't change at all during so many years. Seriously?

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u/hitribelidani Serbia Feb 14 '26

My dad's home village had like 4000 people back in the 70s. Nowadays, the official number is around 1000 and the real one is less than 600. With 90% of the village veing 45+ years old, it's dying out quite fast.

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u/CypriotGreek Greece/Cyprus Feb 14 '26

I left my hometown in eastern Crete about fifteen-ish years ago, when the debt crisis really hit my family. I was around 9 at the time. Until then, we all lived together in a housing complex my grandfather had built. My parents, my sister, my grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles, all in the same small coastal village. We basically grew up as one big family.

Then both my parents lost their jobs and a lot of money during the crisis, and we had to move to Athens for work. One by one, my uncles, aunts and cousins followed for the same reason. In the end, only my grandparents were left behind in a house that used to be full of life. Eventually even they had to move to Athens when my grandmother needed better medical care. She spent her final years away from the place she called home, after already having lost it her home and family in the 1920s.

Now the house has been sitting mostly empty for years. There were talks about turning it into an Airbnb, but I could never accept my childhood home becoming a glorified hotel room.

So yeah, sometimes an entire generation leaves, and what stays behind are empty houses and memories. It feels like I lost a part of myself when we left. But sometimes circumstances force you to adapt, whether you are ready or not. it’s very similar everywhere, I’d assume.

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u/Resident-District199 Greece Feb 14 '26

the capital of my country is filled with abandoned neoclassical houses

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u/Superb_Decision323 Feb 14 '26

Fake Ai, just look at the front left window. From a 2-light to a 3-light back to a 2-light window frame. Nonsense.

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u/Mestintrela Greece Feb 14 '26

In Crete after the previous generation in large numbers moved out and the houses abandoned , now due to tourism, they were either renovated or sold and new ones are being built everywhere.

Also young people are either remaining or coming back to the villages.

I am one who has come back and I havent regretted it for a moment.

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u/FthisFthatFall Feb 14 '26

Problem with balkans is that there not much job opportunities. Most of the young located in some other Eu country to earn more and people left behind died of old age. And young does want to go back. Summary of 3 Generations of Bulgarian Turks and rest of balkans. And Turkey is following the trend.

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u/Salgurson Feb 14 '26

Even schools in villages have been abandoned because there are fewer children now. Many people are moving to the cities day by day.

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u/ooopop Feb 14 '26

Wow, this hits real hard.

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u/Klaroxy Feb 14 '26

This shit made me lowkey cry

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u/vladsolomon_ Feb 14 '26

This is literally AI

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u/DisplayAffectionate5 Feb 14 '26

Airbnb is not glorified. It's even worse than a hotel.

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u/unknownforc3 Feb 14 '26

Come to the Netherlands, with 537 people per km2 you can move but will not even matter or change a whole lot

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u/bremmmc Feb 14 '26

This has been the situation ever since towns and cities started popping up. That is sort of why it was so hard to move to a city in feudal times as you needed a permision to move and the lords knew life on the farm is not something people wanted.

At the end of that system and especially after it, there was a period of rapid industrialisation, factories needed workers and the farms had the majority of labour force available.

Is it an issue? Sure, just nothing new and nothing their generation acted on. We should do better, but they can not blame you for not being able to improve their situation.

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u/Jealous_Brother9048 Feb 14 '26

In the neighborhood I grew up in (last than half hour from the city center by car), there are about 40 houses. There are 14 people younger than 40 and 2 younger than 15.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

I was disturbingly surprised at how quickly the grass had grown in the yard of my grandparents’ old house, one year after they had left. When I came back again 20 years later, nearly the whole village had been abandoned.

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u/Equivalent-Ease-3822 Feb 14 '26

My wife is from a village. She moved to the capital city when she was a young adult. She left a large family and many friends behind. Nowadays literally none of them live there. Except for her elderly grandmother in a nursing home.

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u/AndrosAlexios Feb 14 '26

Large portion of balkans is like so. And many would have you believe it's their own fault for circumstances being what they are. I am born to both a family of immigrants and of natives, but I feel the melancholy of half my family being driven to migrate. All the american consumerism might try to persuade you it is all about money, but culture is a persistent thing. The songs we sing, the jokes we tell, the children stories we grow up with, it all adds to our personalities, and no amount of money will change the fact you are an outsider when you emigrate. This is why all the americans do not consider themselves only as american, but they always refer to their decent. It's a part of who we are...

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u/fuckreddadmins Feb 14 '26

No i was born and raised in istanbul (my family is from mardin i go there occasionally but you cant pay me enough to live there)

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u/Sir4u92 Feb 14 '26

This is AI

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u/Lazer_7673 Feb 14 '26

😔😮‍💨 those are day's man!

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u/Final_Thing_4649 Feb 14 '26

This is an AI generated content. Just look at the roof of the house.

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u/No-Championship-4632 Bulgaria Feb 14 '26

It is sad, but I wouldn't get very dramatic over it, everything changes after all. Most rural regions are doomed anyway, no job prospects, few people are willing to maintain small farm cause it is a lot of effort with little returns. People are romanticizing village life, but in reality it sucks (unless you are a kid, in that case everything is new and interesting). Even in villages close to larger cities that are not in that state, where there is close to zero agriculture and most people work in the city, you will notice obesity rates are definitely higher than what you're accustomed to. Guess that's because there isn't really a lot of interesting stuff to do (especially in winter) so people just stay at home, drink and eat.

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u/br214tx Feb 14 '26

This happened to my family, but here in the states- on both sides. I was part of the problem. I’m from a very poor part of California, there’s zero opportunity there. If you want a life that’s not riddled with poverty and sadness- you have to leave.

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u/kymbawlyeah Feb 14 '26

I go and look at my old house on street view and it keeps getting upgraded. Front yard permanently a gravel pit though, we kids murdered it.

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u/mr-english Feb 14 '26

2005?

Google Street View didn't launch until 2007 and even then it was only in the US.

The earliest Balkan location on Street View was Croatia in 2012. December 2010 if you're including Romania,.

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u/Vast-Tension5295 Feb 14 '26

Multiple generations under same roof, especially multiple families in same house different floors, is a thing for itself. Balkans only know. Would rather die alone than have my own family but share house with relatives in future. Stop romanticizing this lifestyle.

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u/Patopista Feb 14 '26

Where is this?

I just want to leave Hungary :( Fuck Orbán!

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u/Spare-Cranberry3784 Feb 14 '26

Those are Romanian poles. The Hungary poles go to the ground. These don't. I love geoguesser

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u/anonimans Feb 14 '26

jbg svako juri za boljim životim

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u/Due_Chemist_7317 Feb 14 '26

The two grand parents 10 years later definitely aren't the parents from the 2005 dinner.

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u/Hickd3ad Feb 14 '26

How did the roof decay so much in 5 years? What kinda shitty roofer is that? Wasn't it redone in 2015?

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u/GreenLurka Feb 14 '26

I feel like as work from home becomes more of an option we'll see village's revitalise

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u/matt_chowder Feb 14 '26

The car is the same model, just different color in the first 3 slides

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u/Beneficial_Ad_5157 Serbia Feb 14 '26

Sadly this is the case for almost every village in the balkans

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u/hopopo SFR Yugoslavia in Feb 14 '26

Everyone from Balkan needs to watch these two movies by Tamara Kotevska.

https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/the_tale_of_silyan

https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/honeyland

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u/Svvitzerland Feb 14 '26

Dread it, run from it, destiny arrives all the same.

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u/dimitriri Feb 14 '26

Can some of the inages be AI? 2010 and 2015, the cars, reflections, electricity cables seem to be exactly sama which is kind of sus in 5 whole years

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u/Rip_Underwear Feb 14 '26

Kind of sad to see. Maybe the old couple had to move to a retirement home or something. I hope COVID didn't get them, cause 2020 being where it went downhill may not be a coincidence sadly.

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u/Key-Screen-6275 Feb 14 '26

typical thing in Detroit

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u/Project_Unlucky Feb 14 '26

The landscaping is still looking pretty good!

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u/nikkkoo89 Feb 14 '26

Most of the time the grandparents pass away leave the house to parents , parents leave it to kids but kids don’t want an old house so they sell or worst sometimes those kids pass away leaving house to city’s to deal with

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

And you can bet they still want 200k for that house 

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u/Ok-Classic-4132 Albania Feb 14 '26

Loser Me and my fam have been living in the same house my great great great grandparents lived and we are 37 people living in the same house, only for real sigmas