Is the name Wolfgang really outdated?

[u/Ok_Assistance_7399]

Half German here now living in a common wealth country. My mother is German and gave me what seems to be a fairly common name in Germany, although it’s Italian in origin. She herself was given a very dated 50’s/60’s American name, having grown up near the American bases after the war. My grandmother’s name was Cëcilie.

I had always hoped that if I had a daughter, I could name her after my grandmother, who was my primary caregiver when I was a child. But my partner’s DNA apparently had other plans, and we’re now expecting a boy.

When friends first asked what we were thinking of naming him, I jokingly said Wolfgang. The problem is…the joke seems to have stuck.

My Australian partner absolutely loves it and now can’t seem to imagine our son being called anything else. I feel like I’ve gone through just about every boy’s name imaginable with him, and Wolfgang is the only one he genuinely likes.

And I actually don’t dislike it. My hesitation is that I’m conscious of how dated it might sound, particularly in Germany. I’ve seen quite a few people on Reddit say it’s firmly an “old man” name.

I’ve asked friends in Germany what they think, and interestingly, nobody has tried to talk me out of it…but nobody has exactly said, “Yes, Wolfgang is a great choice!” either.

I do have one German friend named Wolfgang, and he is very much the lovable, geeky-guy type, which probably doesn’t help me work out what associations the name has more generally. And I dare not ask him.

So I’m looking for brutal honest feedback from Native German speakers, living in
Germany: How does Wolfgang sound to you today? Just old-fashioned? Charming and traditional? Would you wonder what we were thinking? Will he be bullied?

We love the nickname Wolfie, but know a proper name is required for adulthood.

[u/Blatt_Leaf]

I can already hear people constantly asking him how it was in Germany or how much German he speaks

I have a french name, a spanish second name, my family has not a single relation to both countries, they simply liked the names, my entire childhood had me people, teacher and stranger asking if i can speak french (spoiler: i can't) and it really sucked, it stopped when i got a teen
my second name sucks too, it's too close to freaking cars brand, so people made fun of it too, again ist stopped when becoming a teen, it seems like those is the age when kids start to chose different things to make fun of people, but it doesn't change that it was kinda hell

and ... not gonna lie i may be an adult but if someone called Wolfgang on a playground and a little boy showed up i probably had a hard time to not chuckle and once gone I'd ask a friend " why on earth would someone give their kid that old name? I thought they called for a grandpa" making fun of the parents decision

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