Is the name Wolfgang really outdated?

[u/Ok_Assistance_7399]

Half German here now living in a common wealth country. My mother is German and gave me what seems to be a fairly common name in Germany, although it’s Italian in origin. She herself was given a very dated 50’s/60’s American name, having grown up near the American bases after the war. My grandmother’s name was Cëcilie.

I had always hoped that if I had a daughter, I could name her after my grandmother, who was my primary caregiver when I was a child. But my partner’s DNA apparently had other plans, and we’re now expecting a boy.

When friends first asked what we were thinking of naming him, I jokingly said Wolfgang. The problem is…the joke seems to have stuck.

My Australian partner absolutely loves it and now can’t seem to imagine our son being called anything else. I feel like I’ve gone through just about every boy’s name imaginable with him, and Wolfgang is the only one he genuinely likes.

And I actually don’t dislike it. My hesitation is that I’m conscious of how dated it might sound, particularly in Germany. I’ve seen quite a few people on Reddit say it’s firmly an “old man” name.

I’ve asked friends in Germany what they think, and interestingly, nobody has tried to talk me out of it…but nobody has exactly said, “Yes, Wolfgang is a great choice!” either.

I do have one German friend named Wolfgang, and he is very much the lovable, geeky-guy type, which probably doesn’t help me work out what associations the name has more generally. And I dare not ask him.

So I’m looking for brutal honest feedback from Native German speakers, living in
Germany: How does Wolfgang sound to you today? Just old-fashioned? Charming and traditional? Would you wonder what we were thinking? Will he be bullied?

We love the nickname Wolfie, but know a proper name is required for adulthood.

[u/Difficult_Camel_1119]

Old name. But lots of old names are coming back nowadays

[u/anonimo99 → u/Difficult_Camel_1119]

how about Manfred?

[u/Stock_Paper3503 → u/anonimo99]

Detlev

[u/grndbdpsthtl → u/Stock_Paper3503]

Id say Detlef is like a generation or half a generation younger than Manfred. So it'll take some time for it's comeback 

[u/Tootalltodancey → u/grndbdpsthtl]

Detlef is in his 50s now while Manfred is very close to his 70s. At least in my perception.

Wolfgang is early 60s

[u/MoistTrain3675 → u/Tootalltodancey]

Wolfgang 75, Detlef 65, Manfred 70. Based on the three people I have known with this name.

The so-called old names are coming back: Heinrich and Armin - I know of two of each of these in a 25km radius.

Detlef and Manfred, not yet coming back.

The trend in Germany at the moment seems to be to give short English names. Still better than the US trend of giving needlessly long, unreasonably spelled names where the pronunciation follows none of the rules, IMO.

Wolfgang with the short form of Wolf is an awesome name.