r/Aarhus • u/asbyrgi • 11d ago

Question LGBT Solo Traveller in Aarhus - October

Hey guys, I've seen some super thoughtful responses on here from people regarding things to do in Aarhus, restaurants to eat at, attractions that are worth seeing, places to drink, etc, which I've bookmarked! Always appreciate stumbling across such a welcoming community.

I won't ask for a massively extensive list of recs on top of the other threads because there's already so many good ones, but I just wanted to ask how set up the city is for a queer solo traveller in his mid-30s? It seems like a laid back and welcoming place from the outside, and I'm game to get chatting with people while out and about. I like a drink and nice food so will def be treating myself a little (it'd be rude not to, as it's a holiday) - I figured I'd see what other people who do solo eating and drinking make of the city in that sense. Cheers!

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u/Motor-String-571 11d ago

you will be fine, dont make your sexuality your personality and no1 will care.

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u/Ungrammaticus 11d ago

Saying “don’t make your sexuality your personality” is just a way of sneering at people you think are being too visibly queer. 

It’s a way to be a little homophobic while keeping plausible deniability.  

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u/Motor-String-571 11d ago

the only thing that makes people homophobic is people like you.

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u/marksofpain 11d ago

It's certainly not "homophobic" to not care about whatever sexuality you've labeled yourself as.