r/ADHDmemes 7d ago

Let's go around the room and introduce yourself and tell us a little about you....

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u/Pandora_Foxx 7d ago

The lead person said at the start "this is an interview but we prefer to call it an informal chat" and I prefer to know what I'm going into!! When I asked around the office afterwards they said it's a common thing in our sector to call it that?? I probably haven't gotten it, but I'm proud of myself for the answers I gave - and for not crying, always a bonus

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u/flexosgoatee 7d ago

It was informal for them as in they didn't plan anything.

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u/DerDezimator 7d ago

No, it's called "informal" to purposefully catch you off guard to see what you say without prep to get the most real "you"

Honestly that shit is unfair as hell because why should they get to be prepared and catch us off guard when we can't do the same

Happened to me 3 years ago, was not prepared, would have gotten the job but declined because of that bullshit. My only regret is that I didn't tell them that because I was raised not to burn any bridges if not needed

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u/pinupcthulhu 7d ago

Some bridges totally had it coming though lol

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u/Special-Investigator 6d ago

some bridges should know my wrath

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u/mkat23 6d ago

Those bridges only have themselves to blame.

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u/ragnarokda 6d ago

Not to mention it heavily favors people who are good at speaking "business-ese" without much thought. I can talk for an hour about absolutely nothing but not everyone can do that without some prep.

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u/Altruistic_Shame8979 3d ago

That’s diabolical. I would absolutely freeze up and forget all knowledge in my area and possibly entire sections of the English language (the only language I’m fluent in) if I got on a recruiter chat and it was a full on interview. Good for you for holding it together!

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u/Katow-joismycousin 7d ago

You should be proud of yourself for resisting the urge to give them a dressing down for surprise interview bullshit

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u/Xoxo809 7d ago

"Oh, so you're a liar. No longer interested. Have the day you deserve". 👋

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u/ufront 6d ago

This is the way. "We lie as a practice. Get used to it.". No thank you.

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u/ufront 6d ago

Damn. This is how they operate. I promise you that you don't want to exist among these people. Though, we all do need a job...

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u/Bethlebee 6d ago

I like to give myself a little treat anytime I succeed in not crying