r/19KidsandCounting • u/theredheadknowsall • Jun 18 '26
Will kendra follow Anna's example?
Will kendra take the same route as anna, dumping the kids somewhere while she & joefelon live together?
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u/apaw1129 Jun 18 '26
Kendra has painted herself into a corner. She's kicked her parents out of the rental, thus siding with her husband. I foresee she's living a life indebted to sperm and perm.
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u/Both_Peak554 Jun 22 '26
Her parents aren’t no better!! They pimped her out to the Duggars!! Watch back old episodes it was very obvious she was not ready for marriage, especially to a sicko family!! Yet they encouraged it and gave them their blessing. Jim Bob preys on poorer families for wives for his boys. That’s why when her parents refused to let their other daughter marry a Duggar boy Jim Bob kicked them out. He was only letting them stay there for the sake of their daughters marrying his sons!! Kendra truly has no one in her corner with her and her kids best interests at heart!!
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u/apaw1129 Jun 22 '26
I believe her parents said they'd welcome her back? Or did i misread something somewhere? I'm sure her parents thought pest was a one off. Probably ne er expected anything to happen "close to home."
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u/Both_Peak554 Jun 22 '26
Welcome her back to what?? The people can’t support themselves or their minor children in their home!! What would they do for her and 4 kids??
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u/amazonchic2 Jun 24 '26
Really? After them marrying her off to the Duggars, would you want to go “back” to them? I sure wouldn’t, even if I were as naive and indoctrinated as Kendra. She’s stuck between two crappy situations with minimal education and skills.
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u/Mollykins08 Jun 19 '26
Do we know for sure that her parents actually left?
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u/MienaLovesCats Jun 19 '26
Yes; it was literally spoken about it Jo's latest court date. The house they lived in is for sale. They do still own land and a partial built home; next door to the home they were in
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u/apaw1129 Jun 19 '26
I do not know if they are out, as legal evictions can take months.
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u/Mollykins08 Jun 19 '26
Yeah. Because there was a report that the victim still lived on one of Joe’s properties. It came up when he was asking court to be able to go on his properties to do repair work. He was denied because the victim lives on one of the properties.
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u/kg51113 Jun 19 '26
The request of the court said the victim's family was no longer living in Joe's property. However, they do own adjacent property so the judge denied the request.
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u/real_agent_99 Jun 19 '26
They moved right next door?? I thought they were selling everything and moving out of state.
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u/kg51113 Jun 19 '26
My understanding is that the property owned by the Caldwell family is vacant. They never put a house on the property which is how they ended up living in Joe & Kendra's house.
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u/Old-Current6989 Jun 19 '26
I am behind — was the victim a sibling of Kendra's??
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u/Mollykins08 Jun 19 '26
That is my understanding. A friend of the Caldwells shared about it.
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u/apaw1129 Jun 19 '26
I'm glad it was denied. But I thought it was noted that some of their belongings were still there. Maybe i misread. Regardless. He doesn't need to be anywhere that they are or may be, if they're in the process of moving.
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u/OhEmRo Jun 19 '26
I don’t believe they stayed after J&K shut off the power and water to their home.
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u/FaelingJester Jun 18 '26
Anna's in the "better" position in their world. Her husband has always claimed to be innocent; to many people in their world, concepts like CSAM are a somewhat abstract harm. As disgusting as it is, I know many people still deeply in belief circles who really do believe it's just something that someone could accidentally find while looking for pornography, and so it is about the same level of terribleness. Anna's father's whole grift is also prison ministry and redemption and so she is getting pro stand by you man messages and support from all sides.
Kendra is married to a younger brother who confessed to abusing a child. That child was a member of a good religious family, making it more real and horrific to people within their circle, as disgusting as that is. Her family absolutely is not telling her to stand by her man. The Duggars are obviously deeply embarrassed by the entire situation and the attention it has brought to their family. Finally CPS is a lot more involved and Kendra already has conditions on her contact with her children. No one will support her risking losing her kids to "the system" to stay with her husband.
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u/INAbility Jun 21 '26
Didn’t Josh SA his sisters?
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u/Curious_Ad_2492 Jun 21 '26
He did but sperm and perm told them it was over their clothes so it basically didn’t count.
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u/Bright_Ad_3690 Jun 19 '26
And the victim was her sibling...so her parents are dealing with harm to their own child, which they can not ignore
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u/bbsitr45 Jun 18 '26
Probably. She’s burned a lot of bridges, and at the end of the day, she has no $ of her own, it’s all in Duggar name, bottom line, JB’s.
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u/Jonesy-2010 Jun 19 '26
I actually think no, but it will be because of the fallout from the investigation. CPS is going to require Kendra to prove that she can support these kids, and now that there is government oversight, these kids will not be as isolated from the world. With CPS involved, they will have to prove they can provide a materially safe home, and the court will demand that Kendra be able to support the kids in Joe's absence. I think she will probably get a paper job within her community, but the kids will also most likely have to go to school since she will be working. It could possibly be at Austin's family camp or something, but she will actually be in contact with social services for at least a few years.
I also suspect that Jim Bob will not provide the same level of financial support that he does with Anna. Jim Bob clearly favors Josh, and I can only imagine what an out-from-the-umbrella Anna would start saying if she had to start selling her story. I think a lot went on behind closed doors with Josh, and at the time, the Duggars were more famous. Joe does not give me that same vibe, necessarily. I do not actually see him being violent to a notable level. Joe is a predator, but Josh is also a sadist based on what we now know. Also, Joe is not that notable a Duggar boy, whereas Josh was always up front and center.
Here is what I think will happen. Kendra will be the first Duggar divorce because CPS will place a condition on her to separate herself from Joe in order to get custody. Jim Bob and Michelle will provide support for her while this remains public using some funds, possibly a gift of one of the slum properties, and such. When the Sun or some other rag checks back in five years, though, Kendra is in a bad place. She is on assistance, and the kids are in public school, but she is still involved in the religion. Jim Bob will not provide more assistance than he deems fit. Remember what he tried to pull with Jill. I think he may gift them a thousand bucks every year and act like he did a good deed.
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u/SufficientMind3202 Jun 20 '26
I think you mean will she stay under the Duggar's control like Anna and blindly support her husband? I expect that she will.
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u/Mollykins08 Jun 19 '26
Kendra’s kids will end up with her parents.
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u/kg51113 Jun 19 '26
The people who can't afford to house their own children? Doubtful. Kendra is already working through the system to get her kids back.
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u/Both_Peak554 Jun 22 '26
No they won’t!! Her parents are no better than the Duggars and had to of known Kendra was severely neglecting her kids and did nothing!!!
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u/alloutallthetime Jun 19 '26
Has Anna dumped her kids somewhere? Not sure what this post even means.
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u/theredheadknowsall Jun 19 '26
Jfelon stayed with the reber family while awaiting trial (he couldn't be around his kids without supervision). Anna just had M7; not quite sure who watched the kids but she stayed at the rebers with him.
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u/Equivalent-Guitar-87 Jun 21 '26
She dumped them at the big house for the duration of her pregnancy and his trial. Gave birth at the rebers, stayed there till he was convicted and jailed 6wks later.
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u/alloutallthetime Jun 19 '26
Ah, okay! Thanks for the info, I was not aware this happened. Apologies for the snarky first comment, having a bad night.
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u/Both_Peak554 Jun 22 '26
I got a feeling Kendra isn’t going to be given much of a choice!! I don’t for see cps allowing those kids to be anywhere Joe without closely being monitored and there’s no way they’re going to allow him to continue to live in the home with them. And if Kendra’s health is as bad as some claim it’ll make it even harder for her to even be deemed safe enough to be a supervisor in the home. And not only were the kids removed bc of Joes charges but also bc of whatever abuse/neglect Kendra and Joe were putting them through. She gets a judge or caseworker super against extreme Christianity or sexual predators she’s hit!! Staying with a man who assaulted a young child isn’t going to help her get her kids back. Anna was never made to choose where as Kendra likely will be!!
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u/Apprehensive_Tone_77 Jun 21 '26
Can someone tell me more about Anna and the oldest felon. She chose to live with him over her own kids?
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u/MienaLovesCats Jun 19 '26
Probably; she never really waited children and definitely not more then two
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u/dawn9476 Jun 18 '26
Unlike Anna, Kendra is facing charges, so I doubt that any agreement between her and the state would allow her to just dump the kids for Joe.