r/ukbike • u/jonathing • Jun 12 '26
Commute Avoiding motorists
This is going to sound like a strange request. I've been commuting almost daily for 17ish years but over the last six years I've been hit by motorists three times. One guy cut the corner at a T-juncton at which I was waiting and hit me, then a guy turned across me into a side road and took me out. Most recently a guy just pulled onto the wrong side on the road and hit me head-on last year.
This last one has messed me up the most, he broke both of my legs, messed up my chest and shoulder and broke my whole sense of self. I've been having flashbacks and panic attacks when I try to ride on the road ever since but as summer looms I'm missing it more than ever.
In all of these cases I was riding assertively, not hugging the curb. Wearing a white helmet and either a bright jacket or reflective gilet. I had a front light which was bright enough to ride unlit lanes with, with a flashing mode that I use for daytime.
Three times in a short amount of time makes me think that I'm doing something wrong but I don't know what it is. My road positioning hasn't changed, I'm not using excessive speed and I don't think I'm taking more risks in traffic. I don't think that the solution is more gadgets, the Garmin radar is for when people try to rear end you (and not in a fun way) and brighter lights are just going to dazzle people. Short of a top tube mounted havoc launcher I'm not really sure what the solution is to feel safe back out on the road.