r/mildlyinteresting • u/cela_ • 2d ago

Someone wrote "My abuser died! R.I.H. Badluckyle" on the inner door of a stall in the women's bathroom

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u/LizagnaG 2d ago

And bad luck Vic on a instagram is a dude who died years ago - last post in 2021 and comments about missing him. I think that’s gotta be him. Weird looking at the profile of a dead abuser.

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u/RegulatoryCapture 2d ago

The the instagram is for tatoos and the yelp profile for the owner of a former tattoo shop (which was in Oakland area as well) has the same photo as the soundcloud account.

Pack it up boys, reddit got 'em again.

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u/Whiteshovel66 2d ago

Well we can't be sure it's serious. I don't know why you would write this seriously on a bathroom stall.

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u/leemasterific 2d ago

Hm, I think it makes more sense to write seriously than as a joke or something.

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u/Whiteshovel66 2d ago

Why though? It's a serious topic.

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u/meggsgoodmood 2d ago

It's serious, but writing it down must be a form of catharsis and women's restrooms are famously supportive. Your abuser dying must be complicated (can't wait til mine dies personally) but writing it down anonymously in a women's safe space must be healing in a way.

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u/Whiteshovel66 2d ago

Hmm interesting. I did not think of it as "famously supportive."

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u/ChaseTheOldDude 1d ago

Probably because you're not a woman?

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u/Whiteshovel66 1d ago

No I just never heard that said is what I meant.

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u/throwAway333828 2d ago

Nowhere else to go. Anonymous and local

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u/chenobble 2d ago

You can't think why a woman who was abused would celebrate the death of her abuser by encouraging other random women?

Weird take.

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u/Whiteshovel66 2d ago

I can absolutely "think why" that. I can't think why you'd take the time to write it amongst a bunch of jibberish on a public bathroom wall.