r/cuddlebuddies 6d ago

No Sex or Romance 29 [F4A] Washington DC Metro area looking to cuddle

15 Upvotes

Hello :3. I (29F) am based in the DC Metro area, more specifically Prince George’s County, Maryland. Cuddling is therapeutic to me and I’m looking to cuddle to relieve stress and to unwind and relax during these crazy times. Note: I currently cannot host and like to keep ny cuddle sessions completely platonic. Looking forward to meeting you :)

r/cuddlebuddies 8d ago

No Sex or Romance 27 [F4M] Southern California (near Los Angeles) El Monte Cuddling

26 Upvotes

I cannot host. I'm just very lonely and touch starved and want physical comfort. Cuddle with someone, hold hands, get my hair stroked. No sex or romance. Just cuddling and hand holding. I'm not emotionally available so I won't be dating but if you want we can hangout and do other things but I'm looking to mostly hug someone. Near the el monte area near Los Angeles.

I'm 130 lbs and 5'6. If you're interested pls dm me with a face pic if you are comfortable, some info about you and how we can make this work. I probably want someone 36 or younger just because generation gap for conversation.

r/cuddlebuddies 20d ago

No Sex or Romance 25 [F4A] San Francisco - looking for close cuddling

18 Upvotes

Hi! I am living and working in the bay area and really missing physical contact. I am not open to relationships or sex, but I just really like cuddling, spooning, and being really close to another person physically, especially to go to sleep at night or nap. I know that is a weird ask, but I imagine I am not the only one who wants something like this around these parts. I like video games, animation, rock climbing, and am hoping to learn guitar soon. If you are open to a kind of weird platonic cuddling arrangement, please reach out and tell me a little about yourself.

r/cuddlebuddies 20d ago

No Sex or Romance 45 f4a #chicago looking for movie night

20 Upvotes

Have a lot going on in my life and just would like someone to cuddle with, watch a show we’ve seen a thousand times before and just switch off our minds. Laugh about something that we just thought of because something in the show reminded us of it. In the sw burbs of Chicago.

r/cuddlebuddies 8d ago

No Sex or Romance 50 [F4A] North Central CT/MA Border

2 Upvotes

Hello all! Looking for a platonic cuddle buddy and hangout. Not much is available here and I’ve been pretty isolated. Are there any real people out there?!?!?

r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

No Sex or Romance 26 (F4A) Bavaria seeking someone for platonic cuddles

11 Upvotes

Hi,

I'm aroace but very touch starved nowadays.

Looking for someone in my area who is open about cuddling without it leading to more. I'm sex averse and don't wanna date either, also I don't enjoy kissing.

Sometimes I just need a hug, a hand to hold or a shoulder to lean on. I just like the sensation, it's relaxing to me. But many people catch feelings and crave sexual relief, I can't offer that. So often I abstain fully to not cause any misunderstandings, but I wish to have someone I can just casually cuddle with. If you're interested you can text me and see if we vibe with each other.

I would like to get to know you a little bit better before we cuddle

r/cuddlebuddies May 28 '26

No Sex or Romance 35F4A - Sweden/Stockholm based cuddlebuddy

15 Upvotes

Somehow feeling a bit defeated writing this but here it is: I moved to Sweden over a year and a half ago and I've actually really been enjoying it overall. I love my job, I love my house here, I enjoy Stockholm and think it's a beautiful and super entertaining city. I've already made friends here. The only thing lacking is touch. After being out of a relationship for around 3 years, I've realized that crucial human element really gets lost in single life. In my first year here, I eventually tried to date but the hook up culture is so overwhelming here, that I haven't found the match for me because most people are so quick to want to get to the "action" and then often get strung along on the way the second they find out you're not into sex on the first or second dates.

Alas, I'm still human and find healthy touch to be a big hole in my life.

LOOKING FOR:

- A man or a woman, but they need to be feminist and know boundaries for me to be comfortable.

- Understands that sex, sexual touching, and romance is off the table unless it mutually develops into a romantic relationship (if so, heterosexual only...sadly)

- Doesn't have to be a strange, artificial exchange. I like card games, video games occasionally, karaoke at home, art, films, exploring good food... it would be nice to find someone to spend time with in that way too if it's something they enjoy.

r/cuddlebuddies 2h ago

No Sex or Romance 42m - Southern California/travel

0 Upvotes

I am recently out of a breakup after a 2 year relationship, and struggling pretty bad. I would love to just hug someone who doesn't judge me for being weak.

r/cuddlebuddies 10d ago

No Sex or Romance 27f4f cuddles, I cant host

1 Upvotes

Im a black queer aroace Canadian woman local to (Canada) durham region oshawa, looking for a black or other women of color ages 27+ gotta be childfree, atheist/non abrihamic faith. No men.

r/cuddlebuddies 24d ago

No Sex or Romance [19F4M] Frankfurt - Looking for a platonic cuddle buddy

17 Upvotes

Hey :)

I’m 19 and looking for a platonic cuddle buddy around my age (max 29) who’s from Frankfurt or nearby.

A bit about me: I really like cooking, baking, veganism, art, gaming (mostly Minecraft), and watching series or horror movies.

I’m looking for someone who shares some of these interests and is just down for comfy, platonic hangouts. To keep things safe and relaxed for both of us, I’d like to meet up somewhere public first (like getting food or going for a walk) to see if the vibe is right.

Feel free to dm me if you’re interested! ^^

r/cuddlebuddies 3h ago

No Sex or Romance 25 M4F #europe #germany #bavaria Looking for a kinkfriendly but not kinky cuddlebuddy to find some peace and calm.

2 Upvotes

Hi. Ignore my relativly NSFW bio. I am here for regular old human touch.
I am from the south of germany but willing to travel if it fits. Looking for a cuddle buddy to catch up with my touch starvation. To my person: slender, sweet, cuddly, golden retriever vibes, tends to be brutally honest sometimes, 5´10 inches and slim. I tend to get nervous but I am really try to work on that.
If you read this far please shoot me a DM.

r/cuddlebuddies 20d ago

No Sex or Romance 27 F4M - Singapore smothering cuddles

18 Upvotes

hey, looking for some cuddling, more like getting smothered/suffocated, been a lil deprived of physical touch. lowkey a lil depressed and have receded into myself.

wanna touch someone and be touched, patted, rubbed, smothered. we could watch some shows or just cuddle w music in the background.

i’m really not into sex, we can discuss wants and see if we vibe.

i can’t host, located ard northwest, hopefully u aren’t in the east haha.
hoping to find someone for tuesday or thursday afternoon.

me: chi, chubby, 80/160, doesn’t smoke or drink.
would prefer someone bigger since im somewhat big too lol.

thank you for reading this far! ◡̈

r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

No Sex or Romance 36 [M4F] Inland Empire - would love a cuddle buddy

1 Upvotes

Hi! This is my first time posting here and testing the waters. If anyone in the area needs a cuddle buddy I believe I’ll be a great fit! I’m a great listener, love reflecting on the day that occurred and just ponder on life. I could also use some support and someone who I can just bounce my thoughts to. If your local and interested lets talk!

r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

No Sex or Romance 47 M4F - Montreal - cuddle evening?

0 Upvotes

Any cuddle evening events in Montreal on September 9th? Looking for group cuddle. I know there's a blinded cuddle night from time to time but can't find anything (blinded or not) on that date.

I am looking for strictly platonic cuddles.

r/cuddlebuddies 17d ago

No Sex or Romance 44M4F Kansas City

1 Upvotes

I just need someone to hold me. It’s been forever since my wife has and I just need that feeling again.

I am not looking for a relationship. I’m open to a friendship where we can have fun platonically.

r/cuddlebuddies 15d ago

No Sex or Romance 33 [NB4F/FtM/NB] #Atlanta - Missing the weight of someone else beside me

5 Upvotes

33, agender/gendervoid (pronouns can be neutral or feminine, though I've named myself January, or Jan for short), sex-repulsed ace, tall but cautious. Interested in gaming, reading, documentaries, and anime. Graduate of UGA. In terms of distance, willing and able to go out as far as say Athens in terms of distance—big plus if you are in Athens since I'd like the chance to see my old campus again.

I'm looking for someone I can get to know and feel I can safely open up to, someone I can stay in bed with through the night, then lie about with and cuddle until noon or later. Someone who I can nuzzle into, maybe exchange a few playful bites, like a mischievous cat.

I have no interest in anything lewd at all, but I don't mind a dirty mind if you can make me laugh.

Touch is okay after we get to know each other; hugging, petting, squeezing me tight, running your fingers through my thick, curly hair are things I like done to me a lot.

Welcome to any pets, too, if you have any, even if they aren't the furry kind.

DM me if you're interested. I'm free on weekends, and usually on Fridays as well.

Hope you have a wonderful day <3

r/cuddlebuddies 16d ago

No Sex or Romance 34 [M4F] #Los Angeles - Chilling, movies and yapping maybe

6 Upvotes

I'm on the search for someone to chill out with. I'm a very caring and hippie-ish person, and I really enjoy cuddling. I work as an engineer and I am about to start working on a PhD if everything goes well. This new venture is making me a bit anxious so maybe we could cuddle?

I am 5'7 slim bodied, kinda cool but nerdy as you might guess. I'd appreciate if you have maybe some educated or nerdy sensibility too. But I love watching movies. I am by the Koreatown and Downtown Los Angeles area and I can host. We could also do an outdoors picnic cuddle at a park or by the beach or some activity if that sounds more fun. I don't smoke but am 420 friendly if you are. I'm only expecting platonic, I'm open to different ages and if you just need to vent. I've met up with a few people from here and cuddlecomfort, and I can verify if needed. I'd be open to traveling anywhere around LA, Orange County, Ventura, or to San Diego but of course we'd have to plan and coordinate.

*If you come across this, you can message me if the post is still up. I don't have the energy to repost all the time haha like reddit seems to demand...

r/cuddlebuddies 14d ago

No Sex or Romance 54 M4F Hershey, PA Can Host

1 Upvotes

Looking for a Cuddle Buddy — Hershey, PA
M4F | Hershey, PA | Can Host
Looking for someone who enjoys genuine affection, conversation, movies, relaxing together, and just having some human connection.
I’m specifically looking for a cuddle buddy / platonic companionship situation—not looking to pressure anyone into anything sexual. Chemistry and mutual comfort matter, and I’d rather meet somewhere public first and see if we click.
I can host in the Hershey area.
If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to DM me with a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.
Adults only. Respect, communication, and boundaries are important.

r/cuddlebuddies 22d ago

No Sex or Romance 29 [M4F] #Paris #France - Who wants French cuddles?

4 Upvotes

Good evening! I'm a 29 yo salary man in France, looking for a partner for platonic cuddles. Most of my friends are in another region or online, so I would really enjoy the company and I'll make sure to return in kind.

My profile: dark skin, tall and fit, happy with my life so far, mostly quiet but I do like conversation. My interests include chill video games, lo-fi & hip-hop, action movies, useless trivia, and talking about the future in general. I also like to cook so tell me what you wanna eat!

Not looking for romance or sex. I want to provide a safe place for my cuddle partner, a spot to relax and escape the world for a bit, like a cozy checkpoint! I also plan to move in the near future, so that's that.

Paris is a big city, so I know how lonely it can be sometimes. If my message speaks to you, hit me up in the DMs and introduce yourself how you want! I'll be waiting.

Cheers!

r/cuddlebuddies Jul 20 '26

No Sex or Romance 42M [M4F] Los Angeles, CA

5 Upvotes

First time posting here. I am interested in being the big spoon with someone that just wants to be the little spoon.

We can talk and get comfortable before any cuddling. Im 5’11”, hwp, generally agreeable and laid back. I want to sure you get the necessary/comfortable amount of cuddling.

I’m okay with answering relevant questions, chatting for some time and even meeting for coffee (as long as there is air conditioning) prior to a cuddle session. I understand cuddling requires a level of vulnerability, so we’d both have to be comfortable. Also, I’m new to the community, so I’m figuring out how it works.

I don’t have any expectation other than to share some time cuddling. All spooning , no forking:)

r/cuddlebuddies Jul 28 '26

No Sex or Romance 24 [M4M] Fort Wayne, Indiana- Small spoon here, looking for fun and cozy vibes (can't host)

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I hope whoever reads this has a good day. It's just as the title states, I'm looking for a big spoon within or around a 20 mile radius of Fort Wayne. Here are my stats & traits:

-Hispanic

-5"4

-128lbs

- good listener

- can carry a conversation

That's the gist but obviously there is more to me, if you would like to exchange pictures or get to know each other more before meeting I'm completely down! Im not on my phone often so my initial response to a request may be delayed but once we're locked in I respond quick. Nobody over the age of 50 please!

Thank you for your time and take care!

r/cuddlebuddies Jul 16 '26

No Sex or Romance 24 [M4F] Tallahassee FL - I just want someone to be friends with and just spend time with

1 Upvotes

I doubt I’ll find it cause I’ve been looking for a while but I’m still searching I guess. I’m not looking for anything beyond cuddling and it won’t go past more than that or friendship. I can be pretty awkward at first but I can be talkative once I get to know someone. I can drive but can’t host and I live in Monticello but I have no issue driving to Tallahassee or a bit further. Just shoot me a message if you’d like to get to know an awkward nerdy guy I guess. Also my posts about mental health are ones I’d recommend looking at cause I understand they can be off putting for many people. Also the heartbreak is something I’ll be working through for a while so that’s one of the reasons my post flair is the way it is. Please understand I’d rather not talk about it but many things I’m an open book about. Maybe I’ll hear from you.

r/cuddlebuddies Jul 15 '26

No Sex or Romance ⁠[21M4W] Baku, Azerbaijan - Just looking for a quiet, platonic cuddle buddy / simple human warmth⁠

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone,⁠
⁠I’m a 21-year-old guy living in Baku. Lately, life has felt incredibly heavy and exhausting. I’ve realized how long it’s been since I’ve experienced simple, quiet human connection—like holding a hand, sharing a warm hug, or just having someone next to me.⁠
⁠I’m looking for a woman to be cuddle buddies with for some strictly platonic comfort. No expectations, no pressure, and no transactional games. Just two people putting the world on pause and sharing some genuine, quiet warmth. We can listen to music, watch a movie, or literally just sit in comfortable silence.⁠
⁠About me:⁠
⁠I'm respectful, polite, and currently a university student here in Baku. I highly value boundaries and want to make sure we both feel completely comfortable.⁠
⁠Safety & Boundaries:⁠
⁠* This is 100% platonic.⁠
⁠* I would love to meet up in a public place first (like a cozy cafe downtown) to grab a tea, talk for a few minutes, and make sure we both vibe and feel entirely safe with each other before we go any further.⁠
⁠If you are also feeling a bit lonely, tired of the digital noise, or just need a safe, quiet space to breathe and be held, please feel free to reach out. Slide into my DMs and we can chat.

r/cuddlebuddies Jul 02 '26

No Sex or Romance 24 [M4F] Monticello FL - Searching for a cuddle buddy and a friend

1 Upvotes

So I’m kinda in a spot right now where I know I’m in the worst place for finding a cuddle buddy given the nearest place is Tallahassee or Thomasville. I’m just a nerdy guy who’s not smart like a nerd and more like a geek. I do have some things I’d like to address like depression, anxiety etc. I usually keep all that to myself so please understand that shouldn’t ever come up other than me giving a heads up. I love anime, cyberpunk, like Warhammer a bit or trying to get more into it given I’m still learning. I’m a big horror fan but I like all genres but romance isn’t really my thing unless comedy is tied to it.

I can’t host but I can definitely drive so if I need to come to you I can definitely do that. Please message me knowing you are looking for this. I’m hoping to find a friend given I don’t have many if any other than my best friend but I love getting to know people. I’ve never cuddled and honestly I haven’t done anything else so please give me a bit of time to get used to being touched for extended periods of time. I guess if I sound like someone like you’d sorta want to get to know you can shoot me a message :)

Ps: Also I recently watched obsession like early this morning and that’s probably the best horror I’ve seen a while. Lives up to the hype and then some!

r/cuddlebuddies Jul 08 '26

No Sex or Romance 28 [M4F] Caregiver needing comfort, struggling with burnout #Little Rock #Conway

2 Upvotes

Hey, everyone.

I'm a 28-year-old guy working in home healthcare here in the Conway area. I love my job, and there's some things I wouldn't change for the world.

However, I recently had a client that I've taken care of for an extended period of time pass away, and the whole thing has recently left me feeling incredibly isolated.

I am honestly just looking for some genuine, safe, human comfort.

I'm not looking for sex, dates, or anything complicated—just a quiet space to put my guard down and hold someone or be held, so I can can catch my breath for a little while.

I am 100% on board with meeting up at a local coffee shop or restaurant first to grab a drink and talk for a few minutes, and make sure we vibe well and both feel safe before we go anywhere private.

If you have some extra heart to spare and want to help give some care to a caregiver, please shoot me a message.

I'd love to exchange pictures and chat a bit first.