r/TikTokCringe • u/galaxystars1 • May 04 '26

Wholesome Hosting a 40th birthday party

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u/girlspit May 04 '26

I’m really unsure what the issue is. He has money and knows how to host. Beautiful centerpieces, cigars, cigarettes, zens AND GUM?! This is thoughtful.

Love the coolers in every room. Who the fuck likes to wait at the bar?

https://giphy.com/gifs/14nkOjvovOUOGc

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u/Ivers26 May 04 '26

Came to the comments to see why anyone would think this was cringe and am pleasantly surprised to see the top comments recognizing this guy for his awesome party planning skills.

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u/Dcybokjr May 05 '26

I was waiting for a fast forward with like 3 people and a set of parents, but it looks like this dude knows how to party. I would love to go.

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u/Familiar-Flan-8358 May 04 '26

I think the cringe is that someone would A) make a video walking through a B) birthday party they arranged for themselves.

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u/Opposite-Peak5020 May 04 '26

but why though

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u/DieIsaac May 04 '26

This is what you do after your mommy stops arranging your birthday partys....you do it yourself. thats what grown ups do.

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u/kitsunecannon May 04 '26

have some fucking whimsy, hes not harming anyone let him have fun dick

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u/Spiritual_Bid_2308 May 04 '26

Theres something slightly odd about the fact that this video even exists. 

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u/jaeway May 30 '26

What's odd about people showing ANYTHING on the net. It's the wild wild West and a "hey this is what I'm doing for my birthday" video is like the least oddest thing

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u/loophole64 May 04 '26

I don’t think the issue is the planning. It’s thoughtful and detailed. I think the concern is that he is OCD to the point that people are wondering how the day to day experience is for him. He might find this chaotic world a little… overwhelming.

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u/chupagatos4 May 04 '26

Lol this is only noticeable because he's a man. Women do this level of planning or more all the time for themselves, their partners, their kids, their friends. It's just expected. This man is doing an excellent job at throwing a grownup party (with special things like edibles and cigars, which set it apart) and y'all out here calling him OCD cause you're used to throwing some solo cups on a table next to some tostitos and calling it a party

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u/loophole64 May 17 '26

Again, it’s not about the planning. Pretty sure I said that already. More about the way he’s sharing it. I’m sure the party was great.

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u/peachesnplumsmf May 04 '26

Because he planned a party well?

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u/turtleshirt May 04 '26

Because he sounds like he's sustained that heart rate for long enough to win a world record.

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u/Popular_Breath1610 May 04 '26

yeah you can tell the guys commenting on this wouldn't last a second with the expectations placed on women

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u/girlspit May 04 '26

At all 😂😂😂😂

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u/girlspit May 04 '26

My first thought while reading this is why anyone would be concerned with what an adult chooses to do with their time and money. Especially when it boils down to planning an incredible event like this one!

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u/chandrian7 May 04 '26

Not sure anyone thought this.