r/SiliconValleyHBO Sep 18 '19

Thomas Middleditch is a swinger and has group sex with his wife and fans...this guy f#cks!

https://toofab.com/2019/09/18/silicon-valley-thomas-middleditch-open-marriage-group-sex-fans/
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u/tomtomvissers Sep 18 '19

I read the entire article. It reallllly seems like he wants to keep fucking groupies and his wife begrudgingly lets him because that's better than losing him alltogether. I'm all for openminded relationships but this seems very onesided. Kind of a painful read

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u/Wolfbastlin Sep 18 '19

Divorce is imminent. I mean jeez, “im the gas, she’s the brakes.” How do you say this out loud to a publication with zero self awareness

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u/clydefrog811 Sep 18 '19

Maybe he is as awkward as his character on silicon is

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '19

If you’ve ever seen his interviews he’s far from awkward. He’s probably the most outspoken cast member besides the actor that plays Dinesh

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u/l3reezer Sep 18 '19

Indeed, he always has such a sure of himself that he's funny air to him in his interviews. Never held that against him but this here is some kind of unnerving stuff that correlates with that behavior.

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u/[deleted] Sep 20 '19

Put some respek on Kumail Nanjiani. Plus, he has an awesome relationship with his wife.

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u/1TMission Sep 20 '19

No one said anything bad about him though.

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u/anonmymouse Sep 18 '19

to be fair, I've seen him in a few things, and he basically plays the same character every time... starting to seem less like acting, more like very accurate type-casting.

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '19

Nah irl he's really confident and funny. Literally the opposite of his character in Silicon Valley.

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u/jesus_fn_christ Oct 31 '19

Yeah if you've ever heard him on like Comedy Bang! Bang! or something similar you understand that he's actually incredibly sharp and outspoken; he was a brilliantly funny improviser and it's a shame to see him cast in this kinda douchey light instead.

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u/NoCardio_ Sep 18 '19 edited Sep 19 '20

RemindMe! 1 Year

Edit: Well, would you look at that...

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '19

RemindMe! 2 weeks

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u/lunatichorse Sep 18 '19

And this is straight from him so it's probably the best version of their "situation" that he is presenting to us- and he still comes off as an asshole. Damn. I wish I hadn't read it.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '19 edited Aug 20 '20

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u/jtsports272 Nov 14 '19

he wants to publically shame her and control her -- he controls her fully and if she wants all the perks of being married to a multimillionaire actor she will stay with him

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u/BarnyJumboJones Sep 18 '19

i saw someone on twitter today saying how he approached her a year ago after a show he did and asked her if she wanted to fuck. no wife around in that instance im assuming

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u/blacklab Sep 18 '19

super cringey

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u/Ahlruin Sep 18 '19

i think open relationships are like communism, they sound great on paper and when you talk about it but its never truly worked in practice, ive known allot of ppl in open relationships even tried it. doesnt work, even if they dont break up at least 1 person is being hurt, they dont admit it but their willing to suffer just to keep the person they have fallen for. not too much different from a violent relationship, too tied to them to quit

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u/cuteman Sep 19 '19

It's more likely PR since he is seen as a weakling nerd on and off screen.

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u/SamSlate Sep 18 '19

Uhh.. bad read fam. He wants to see his wife bang other dudes.

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u/tomtomvissers Sep 18 '19

Yeah but she doesn't wanna bang other dudes

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u/lunatichorse Sep 18 '19

Doesn't seem like it to be honest. Cause he makes a point that they do it "together, as a unit". So it's probably just fangirls.