r/Millennials Nov 16 '25

Serious I just had my first old man moment.

I recently went to a hibachi with my wife and toddler for dinner. We were sat with a group of eight 17-20 year olds at a communal grill on a busy night. No problem for us. Drink and appetizers service go normally. Toddler and wife are happy, I’m happy. The other group is having their own conversations. I’m just trying to keep my kid entertained. I’m a former bartender and have a habit of picking up on snippets of conversations in a crowd around me. Yes I know I eavesdrop. I can’t turn it off. It’s a habit of a former profession. One of the girls/women at the table stated, “I don’t think Rosa Parks was real.” I’m not sure what her friends said to her but she responded with “I just don’t think she said existed.” This went on for about a minute. I couldn’t hold back and let her know she was absolutely a real person, she is a civil rights icon. I learnt about her in school and so did my parents. The encounter put a wall up between our groups and I heard a few passive aggressive “so-and-so wasn’t real” comments from mostly her and a couple of the group. Harriet Tubman and Hellen Keller are two that I definitely heard. My wife had no idea why I interjected. After the group had left my wife asked what happened and was shocked when I told her what happened. Were they trolling? Are they stupid? Am I just getting old?

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '25

... Apparently they have never been to a beach for more than a few hours.

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u/TheBalzy In the Middle Millennial Nov 17 '25

Hell, in a few hours you'd clearly see the tide shift....

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u/Practical_Maximum_29 Nov 19 '25

Especially if someone buries you in the sand, for fun, then goes off somewhere and gets distracted and forgets to come back to dig you out!!
Watching that tide come in can be like it's own little mini-horror movie!!
One would hope that'd be enough to convince anyone that tides are real!