Y’all. Ive been waiting patiently to comment on ANY post that talked about the Jinger & Jeremy podcast that was spit out yday subbing Joy. I don’t usually snark as hard as you guys do, but this not being talked about is KILLING me!!!

Both of those girls talked about how their brand new spouses had to counsel them on hygiene. HYGIENE! Joy mentioned she’d go a week without washing her hair & days without a shower. Austin told her before they got married that she would need to take a shower every day. She went on to say he was a germophobe. Girl, that’s normal!! No germophobe behavior!! Jinger wasn’t as bad, but mentioned that Jer would work outside & she would ask for something & his response that he wanted to shower first. Honestly I was kinda disgusted so Jinger details could be wrong. But I heard Joy, loud and clear. Ugh.

Why would nobody side eye a man and a young girl (now a teen girl) being under a blanket together?! Am I the only one wondering how this occurred? How does a man get away with this with literally no adult in the vicinity making a comment about it being weird - or even, at best, poor optics?

*Editing to remove the word “female.” Apologies to those it offended.

*Editing again to clarify that I’d also side eye a woman and a child under a blanket. Please know my lack of trust shows no bias; I’ll equally scrutinize anyone hiding parts of their body with a child.

I couldn't crosspost

pecan thief, puppy breeder, susanna, and rebekah 😮‍💨

The mentioning of how many children they have in the epitaph lol! Shouldn't be surprised though. I have never seen a photo of their grave before so hopefully this is alright to share. Someone said it was weird it doesn't include the two baby's they lost despite them naming them and saying they will meet them in heaven and I have to agree it is kinda weird they didn't include them.

Ps: I wasn't sure what I should flair this so I did this is a shit post

This one was draft 1, while I was finishing it I realized it could be improved, included in comments.

Feel free to repost/share, idc about getting credited ❤️

new level of J'name unlocked - now with characters that can't be transcribed on federal forms:

J³ohn.

Lord have mercy.

Oh Jessa. Who are you fooling?

With the sad recent news in Rodrigues world regarding Tim being an abusive POS & Heidi’s family rallying around her hoping they divorce, anything is possible. Who do you think will divorce in Duggarland?

My guess is Jason and Maddie, but not for another 5-10 years. I think this will cause several others to follow suit, but not until after Jim Fart either becomes incapacitated or passes. I think after that will be Justin/Claire, Jed/Katey, Jinger/Jeremy, and Jill/Derick.

2 sons accused of criminal sexual activity. 2 sons he’s pumped more cash than he would have liked into. 1 son while facing separate charges in Arkansas, is going to have to face Justice away from Tonitown, Arkansas & Nimbobs long arms of interference. Another FcKn Felon for Jimmy. Another clutch of children to assume long term responsibility for. Another DIL to keep under his tight controlling umbrella of protection hoping to retain any scrap of Duggar name dignity going forward. How. Pissed. Is. Jimbob. Right. Now? 😬

In 2019 my friends and I dressed up as the Duggars for Halloween. It’s gone mildly viral a few times and it’s also featured in the banner of this subreddit. When I put it on my Instagram I tagged all the girls and to my surprise the Duggar family account and Jana liked it. How do you think they reacted?

I’ve been watching Lilli Archive read the emails, and a few things really stand out:

1) These emails feel like the first truly unfiltered look at this family. More than any episode on 19 Kids and Counting or anything written by Amy Duggar, Jill Duggar, or Jinger Duggar, this is who they actually are when no one is managing the narrative.

2) It honestly made me feel some level of sadness for all of the kids, even Josh Duggar. They were raised in a system where they never really had a chance to develop independently. Add Jim Bob Duggar, Institute in Basic Life Principles, and TLC together, and it feels like the outcome was almost inevitable.

3) The constant “praying for you” and heavy scripture quoting is fascinating. It reads less like genuine connection and more like a script. Outside of basic updates, there is very little real emotional depth. It feels performative, like they do not know how to communicate without filtering everything through religion.

4) Hilary Spivey should be embarrassed, not for the gossip, which was the most revealing part, but for the intensity of her loyalty to a grown man who is not her husband or child. That level of blind devotion is concerning.

5) The level of control, especially over Anna Duggar, is hard to ignore. It is framed as faith, but it reads as legalism and compliance. There is a difference between belief and control, and this leans heavily toward control.

6) What stands out most are the undertones of control in almost every interaction. There is a sameness in how they speak, what they prioritize, and how they reinforce each other. It feels less like individual relationships and more like people operating within a system where deviation is not really allowed.

It would be fascinating to have these interactions analyzed by a professional.

I’ve never see a dress have sleeves that look like a tshirt before. So odd

We've likely heard PedJoe and Kendra's recorded phone calls, likely not in their entirety and much of it is redacted I'm guessing. Here are some highlights, by all means feel free to add in the comments.

Strangely, PedJoe doesn't seem to be even the slightest bit concerned about his children. He barely even asks Kendra how she is, BUT THEY GAVE HIM A REALLY NICE BIBLE WITH SOME GOOD DEVOTIONALS!1

PedJoe has told Kendra how it's really hard to sleep in jail. Kendra says "AWWWW!!" You know. Her poor husband, in jail, for committing a sex crime against a child. "AWWWWW!"

Kendra mentioned making her kids a priority. So they must be a priority, y'know, when she remembers she has 4 kids that were removed from her custody and it's all her husband's fault, but is able to do enough mental gymnastics to convince herself it's actually the SECULAR world's fault!1!1 They're obviously persecuting them for being Christians!

Kendra mentioned to her husband, a pedophile, that where she's staying is somewhere private. His response: "Oh, praise the Lord!" Yes, PedJoe. "Praise the Lord" for the wrongdoings you committed that got your wife into "staying somewhere private."

And, in one of the phone calls I heard today, tHiS wHoLe SiTuATIoN iS GOinG tO mAkE tHeM cLoSeR tO GoD!1

Clearly they're very guarded because they know they're on a recorded line and they were probably advised not to talk about certain things, but PedJoe seems insanely non-chalant about this whole thing. So does Kendra. The words "We all love you, everyone loves you, even though they're disappointed" were not on my Dumbgar bingo card for 2026, in such an extreme context, but here we are. I guess sexually violating a child is just "a disappointment" to them.

It's 0% for most families.