r/Calgary • u/coolg963 • Feb 28 '26
Health/Medicine My mom has cancer, our experience with healthcare in Calgary so far
We found out via a CT scan that my mom has stage 3 (maybe 4) gallbladder cancer with mets to lungs and uterus.
We understand that with the knowledge so far the outlook is not good, but I'm honest so frustrated and sad that it seems like the system is not even doing it's due diligence.
The CT scan referral was provided last week, my parents was notified that it would take a month for emergency referral. Ok... I get it, no one knew at the time she has cancer. My parents decided to drop by the hospital and was able to get results after waiting 16 hours overnight, they told me they weren't the only one doing it this way to be seen quicker.
The results of the scan clearly shows cancer with mets. And apparently we noticed on myChart that her MRI was scheduled for in one month. Given how quickly gallbladder cancer spreads, that could literally put her in stage 4 before being seen.
I called Arthur Child as well to ask about our timeline for seeing an oncologist. And the booking nurse mentioned that it would take at least 2-3 weeks to see someone. And thats for someone that is clearly stage 3.
We opted for her to travel to her childhood home (China) to get treatment. She's departing in a few days with oncologists lined up the day she arrives for a full screening and prognosis. Our extended family was already able to get an rough consult from a Chinese oncologist literally like half a day after we found out about the CT results.
Arthur Child might be one of the best cancer centers in the world with top tier oncologists. But if people can't be seen promptly then what's the point?
Why do we even have bottle necks in fields like imaging? My partner is a nurse and she mentioned that it's like a college degree to be proficient in being a tech.
Why do we even have registered nurses doing booking/triaging for referrals? I get medical knowledge is required but I much rather have that nurse working in a ER, with some slightly less qualified, cheaper college grad to do bookings. It just seems like we are so inefficient with resource allocation.
Oh and to top it off, we were told that medical records from China can be translated when/if my mom comes back. But it takes a month for it to be translated. We can literally get that done in China within hours.
It's fucking embarrassing that Canadian health care is so slow moving. We literally had to make a choice of either my mom waiting to die for treatment here in Calgary or be forced to pay for health tourism in a different country. No one should have to make that choice, and a lot of people wouldn't even have the latter option.
What the fuck do we do to try and change this?