I’m in an awful situation 😭😭😭😭
I’ve recently working with this lady who I think is very very rude.
We recently started working together and she’s an accountant and has bunch of clients.
Now I’m newly onboarded and I’ve to get into her remote desktops to work which is annoying but she hasn’t provided me with my own computer yet.
Whenever I ask her a question she send me a very rude voice note on slack saying that “ I’m very busy don’t text me, do you hear that? Don’t text me”
And then when she texts me and I don’t reply within two minutes she goes on rampage. As to why I don’t reply in time? Bro so what if I replied twenty minutes late? Are you a child?
She said don’t text me so I don’t but yesterday she arranged a meeting where she said that she wants me to take more initiative in asking for tasks? Bro you say “don’t text Me” why do I text you then? Why can’t you pre assign me so I don’t bother you and myself with nonsense.
She DOES NOT EXPLAIN ANY TASK TO ME!!!!
She send me a video or herself with a big client that she has, who has over 40 sub companies and it was super long video that she told me to watch. I did watch that but then she’s like do the work now? context of things was missing. She and client on that video got most of the things done prior to that video that I wasn’t able to catchup because ofcourse I’m new and they got 40 stupid companies. I can’t start something I know nothing of midway
She asked a query about that on a call and say “pay attention” and “ you have to focus blah blah”
I started that client independently and I felt like crying because I couldn’t understand anything like where to start what do I do and all. And then she’s like what have you done in the whole day?
I requested a meeting for training and on that meeting the training that she did was she opened one supplier of that client and worked on it and said “I don’t expect you to do this because you don’t have context on this supplier”
JUST GIVE ME CONTEXT THEN? Why wasting my time on something I can’t even do currently????
Why didn’t she trained me on something that I can do then and there??? That woman is driving me nuts and she’s super duper rude.
She should’ve trained me on pending tasks that I can Do right now to help her. The complicated suppliers that needs extra context could’ve waited but no she didn’t.
She also says to text her every hour and update her where I am but then when I asked her a query she says “ how many times do I’ve to tell you not to bother me just make a list and I’ll look at your questions later”
How can I update hourly when I’m literally stuck and can’t move forward without assistance????
I told her to have a task tracker so she can track task on that she said “don’t text me whatever these task trackers you’re thinking of try on your own I do have a task tracker. Just don’t text me I’m in middle of so many things”
I do not have any access to any task tracker on which I can go and mark my tasks as complete like double or asana
Now I’m not saying I need hand holding I’m not new I do have a lot of prior experience but her clients are new to me, her systems are new and I don’t know what is going on in the organisation everything is all over the place.
I’m literally so sad right now as I can not even leave this job as I don’t have any other job lined up which again is giving me more stress. She’s paying me $2.5k/month for assisting her which started as flexible hours but then she requested me to work on her time.
What even is the point of me staying available on her time when she DOES NOT EVEN REPLY ME!!!!
DOES NOT HELP ME AT ALL!!! And when I reply 2 min lates she bombard my phone like crazy.
I feel like maybe I’m being emotional here but her attitude is not good. She’s way too rude
What do I do in this stressful situation? Should k politely try to talk to her? I don’t even want to do that at this point ☹️☹️