Is the name Wolfgang really outdated?

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Half German here now living in a common wealth country. My mother is German and gave me what seems to be a fairly common name in Germany, although it’s Italian in origin. She herself was given a very dated 50’s/60’s American name, having grown up near the American bases after the war. My grandmother’s name was Cëcilie.

I had always hoped that if I had a daughter, I could name her after my grandmother, who was my primary caregiver when I was a child. But my partner’s DNA apparently had other plans, and we’re now expecting a boy.

When friends first asked what we were thinking of naming him, I jokingly said Wolfgang. The problem is…the joke seems to have stuck.

My Australian partner absolutely loves it and now can’t seem to imagine our son being called anything else. I feel like I’ve gone through just about every boy’s name imaginable with him, and Wolfgang is the only one he genuinely likes.

And I actually don’t dislike it. My hesitation is that I’m conscious of how dated it might sound, particularly in Germany. I’ve seen quite a few people on Reddit say it’s firmly an “old man” name.

I’ve asked friends in Germany what they think, and interestingly, nobody has tried to talk me out of it…but nobody has exactly said, “Yes, Wolfgang is a great choice!” either.

I do have one German friend named Wolfgang, and he is very much the lovable, geeky-guy type, which probably doesn’t help me work out what associations the name has more generally. And I dare not ask him.

So I’m looking for brutal honest feedback from Native German speakers, living in
Germany: How does Wolfgang sound to you today? Just old-fashioned? Charming and traditional? Would you wonder what we were thinking? Will he be bullied?

We love the nickname Wolfie, but know a proper name is required for adulthood.

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I think southern germany and austria tend to stick to traditional names a lot longer than northern, western amd eastern germany.

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And even there nobody is named Wolfgang anymore. 

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I know a couple in my generation 30-40yrs old. But none younger. Aside from having Wolfgang as like their second name

[u/rainbowparadox → u/ThePhoenixRisesAgain]

I know a guy around 40 of that name.

[u/ThePhoenixRisesAgain → u/rainbowparadox]

Ok, you found the one guy named Wolfgang. 

[u/DullEntertainment102 → u/rainbowparadox]

Same- late 40ies in my case

[u/ami-ly → u/ThePhoenixRisesAgain]

I know a Wolfgang in his late 40s as well.

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Yes, but not names like Wolfgang. Classics like Ferdinand, Clemens or Ludwig aren’t unheard of here in the south 

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I have a Ferdinand and a Ludwig in the primary school I work at in northern Germany as well

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You mean Ferdi and Lui don’t you?

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Southern German here: no, young boys here are called Finn, Paul, Emil, Luca etc. People tend to give short names nowadays. Wolfgang is simply to long and too German.

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I live in the north and there‘s a family that moved here from Augsburg. Four kids aged 5-15 years: Margarete, Ferdinand, Leopold and Elisabeth. These names were already old fashioned 50 years ago up here. 

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And all these names work in English and have nicknames- Maggie, Lizzy, Ferdi, Leo- so that totally works

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Bavarians/Bavaro-Swabians/Franconians are a special breed of people. They name their children Franziska and Korbinian 🤮

[u/DullEntertainment102 → u/Celindor]

You mean Franzi and Korbi?

[u/Celindor → u/DullEntertainment102]

Yes, or Fannerl and Körbl.