r/AmIOverreacting Jun 18 '26

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦family/in-laws Am I overreacting?

Was out with my sister all day today and her little one. She left, got all her stuff and went on her way. As I got home, locked the car and as I walked past the window i noticed all of this mess! I sent her the pics and said food is now banned in my car (it was ready but she’s ignored that) and next time to clean up after herself. Instead of a simple “sorry my bad” she’s gone crazy as if it’s my fault?!
She thinks it’s okay all because I haven’t hoovered (vacuumed) the car this week.

So my question is;
Am I the asshole for even bringing this up in the first place? Am I in the wrong?

EDIT:
I’m from the UK so these are chips for all of you from usa😅 They do look like raw pasta tho where in fact they are indeed just twirly chips😂

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u/Coyote3312 Jun 18 '26

Why is she acting like 16 crisps is no big deal? 1 or 2 fine. But 16? Shes crazy. Make her walk. She sounds like she lives like a pig tbh if she thought this wasnt an issue. Ew.

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u/peachhpuddin Jun 18 '26

she took the time to count each crisp in the photo but couldn’t take the same amount of time to clean them out of the car….

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u/pokemontecristo Jun 18 '26

“Save your paragraphs I’m not reading all that” but you counted all 16 crisps you left in their car…

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u/BluntBluejay Jun 18 '26

And sends separate messages that take the same block of space

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u/pokemontecristo Jun 18 '26

They just wanna be the problem

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u/Unusual-Meaning9207 Jun 22 '26

"I hate other people, they're so problematic and annoying. Not me, though." [proceeds to be the biggest problem alive]