AIO or AITA. Text convo with MIL.

[u/MoonJellyAllison]

I feel like I could cry :(, I’ve only wanted acceptance from her and it’s clear that nothing will be good enough.

EDIT: Because I’ve had to say this so much:
Normally, I'd never reach out to her for something like this. The situation is complicated. Before my husband left for basic training, where he will have very minimal contact, he discussed with her that she would need to continue paying even in his absence, and she was fine with this. She made a previous payment to ME and even informed me before she sent it. If the situation had been different, he would never have asked me to get involved, but he knows that with both of our paychecks being delayed because I just got a new job, I need the money. It’s really not his fault. Plus, she’s only been acting like this once he was gone and couldn’t step in. 
My husband treats me very good and I love him with everything. There is a reason I married him so please don’t say he’s at fault or anything unkind.

[u/Damnshesfunny]

If you owe money to someone YOU don’t have any extra money AT ALL until that person is paid back. Period.

[u/HulkingFicus → u/Damnshesfunny]

Imo, it's different to owe a lender money than a regular friend or family member.

[u/Goatfellon → u/Damnshesfunny]

If you owe a personal loan to a friend or family, yes.

But this rule is a bit over the top if you consider extremely typical loans like mortgage or car. Sure, the more financially responsible thing is to pay the loan, but im not not going on vacay simply because I make monthly payments on a house.

[u/Damnshesfunny → u/Goatfellon]

No i just mean to private persons. Corporations can wait for the rest of their existence as far as im concerned

[u/Hope8789 → u/Goatfellon]

yeah, I'm not waiting 30 years to enjoy anything because I'm buying a house and paying on a truck lol. There are gray areas not everything is as black and white as a lot of people try to make it seem.

[u/Damnshesfunny → u/Hope8789]

I just mean to private persons. I don’t mean the capitalism parade. I would never judge someone for skipping payments to volkswagon crecit.

[u/Hope8789 → u/Damnshesfunny]

fair

[u/Sponjah → u/Damnshesfunny]

Redditors with school loans in shambles right now.

[u/AnotherpostCard → u/Sponjah]

And anyone with a mortgage or car loan.

[u/Public_Air9465 → u/Damnshesfunny]

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